The LadyKiller
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I don't know which forum this fits best in, but assume work is akin to wealth and success. I'll keep this one fairly brief. I work in close quarters with many of my coworkers, and we all have varied schedules, which includes working weekends. We all seem to get along in the office, but I've come to a realization:
- When I initiate going out with coworkers who are off the same day, people show up and we all have a good time. When it's my turn to organize the food order at work, everyone is included.
*****However*****
When I am not the one initiating going out with coworkers who are off the same day, the other coworkers still go out and do not invite me. When it's someone else's turn to organize the food order at work, I am not asked more often than not.
How do I best handle this sort of thing? Because we work many hours together, I am all for good camaraderie, and I feel I generally get along pretty well with my peers. But at the same time, I feel initiating everything is a waste of my energy. Whenever I don't get the ball rolling, the ball never reaches me.
- When I initiate going out with coworkers who are off the same day, people show up and we all have a good time. When it's my turn to organize the food order at work, everyone is included.
*****However*****
When I am not the one initiating going out with coworkers who are off the same day, the other coworkers still go out and do not invite me. When it's someone else's turn to organize the food order at work, I am not asked more often than not.
How do I best handle this sort of thing? Because we work many hours together, I am all for good camaraderie, and I feel I generally get along pretty well with my peers. But at the same time, I feel initiating everything is a waste of my energy. Whenever I don't get the ball rolling, the ball never reaches me.
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