always getting labelled as provider

[joe45]

How come every girl.I.meet or day2 treats me as provider as oh what do you drive , what's your.job and education and goes into detail questioning on it. Asking if I own my house too.
I'm not paying for then majority of them and most dates are coffee simple dates.
I.got no fancy ride or dress nice either. H&m ,zara, ...etc
Why do I get labelled as provider and get qualify as that and not sex buddy
Other guys I met.toldme they never get labelled as provider
Btw I'm Chinese and girls are mainly also Chinese who do this to me. Japanese way less like this and Korean is some are and some aren't .

 

[YAboi]

must be a culture thing. Those girls are not looking for a quick bang, theyre looking for husbands...

 

[zekko]

What difference does it make? They'll still fvck you.

PUA Bro Theory says that you may have to wait an extra date or two for sex if she thinks you're a provider type. But I'm a good provider type (I make good money and I'm stable), and that hasn't been my experience.

 

[G_Govan]

Women look at me as a provider because they think I'm a nice guy even before we've talked (that's what a baby face gets a lot of men). The look on their faces when I put my foot down (I have to do this ALL the time) is priceless.

Like Zekko said, it doesn't matter as long as they're into you. Doesn't mean you have to BE a provider.

 

[Willard]

I agree with YAboi, I dated 2 chinese women this year and both of them seemed like they just wanted a husband and provider, I guess it wouldn't be so bad because they would cook and clean for me, lol.