"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Always getting interupted

Tkman

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When ever I am chatting to a hot chick one of my chick classmates seem to interupt me puposely with no good reason !

1) Talking to other hot chick ... the chick classmate taps me on the shoulder, I am like " what ? " she says " Oh, nothing " and looks upset.

2) Talking to other hot chick ... the chick classmate (different from the 1st one) walks up to me and taps my shoes in a playful way. I look at her, she looks back and walks away !


Anyone had such experience ? please share !
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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OneArmDeeJay

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:rolleyes:

Its possiable they like you and immature or **** blocking you and immature.

But again as stated many times in many threads to turly know if she is intrested is to get the number and get her on a date with you.

Best of Luck

And bro whats up with your age?

Come on man, grow up.
 

TesuqueRed

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girls are competitive with each other

if they can't have you they can intercede and prevent another from getting you

a married woman explained this to me (in so many words), and I read it here too

viscious games they play, no?
 

tristan22

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I met up with someone from sosuave and he kept interjecting while i was talking to some chic. I was nice to him at first, but when he wouldn't leave i pulled him aside and told him "look your starting to annoy me, can't you see i'm having a conversation with this hottie. I told him to take a look around and find his own girl to talk to."
 

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Never start off a conversation with too much interest on your part unless you have a particular goal in mind, in which case you should just go for it directly.

But if you're just building rapport and DHV, be disinterested at first. This means:

-- Look over your shoulder rather than turning your whole body

-- Speaky slowly and confidently, looking right at her when you talk, but only briefly when she talks

If she earns it (she seems to be interested in what's going on), you can reward her by turning your body language a bit and perhaps showing more interest and eye contact when she's speaking.

Although on the surface, this is making you seem not needy, it has another function: If you get INTERRUPTED, as you say you are, you don't lose face.

See, if you're fully turned toward someone and engaged in a conversation and then someone interrupts your partner, it hurts you socially, especially if she doesn't immediately return her interest to you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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