"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Always getting interupted

Tkman

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When ever I am chatting to a hot chick one of my chick classmates seem to interupt me puposely with no good reason !

1) Talking to other hot chick ... the chick classmate taps me on the shoulder, I am like " what ? " she says " Oh, nothing " and looks upset.

2) Talking to other hot chick ... the chick classmate (different from the 1st one) walks up to me and taps my shoes in a playful way. I look at her, she looks back and walks away !


Anyone had such experience ? please share !
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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OneArmDeeJay

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:rolleyes:

Its possiable they like you and immature or **** blocking you and immature.

But again as stated many times in many threads to turly know if she is intrested is to get the number and get her on a date with you.

Best of Luck

And bro whats up with your age?

Come on man, grow up.
 

TesuqueRed

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girls are competitive with each other

if they can't have you they can intercede and prevent another from getting you

a married woman explained this to me (in so many words), and I read it here too

viscious games they play, no?
 

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I met up with someone from sosuave and he kept interjecting while i was talking to some chic. I was nice to him at first, but when he wouldn't leave i pulled him aside and told him "look your starting to annoy me, can't you see i'm having a conversation with this hottie. I told him to take a look around and find his own girl to talk to."
 

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Never start off a conversation with too much interest on your part unless you have a particular goal in mind, in which case you should just go for it directly.

But if you're just building rapport and DHV, be disinterested at first. This means:

-- Look over your shoulder rather than turning your whole body

-- Speaky slowly and confidently, looking right at her when you talk, but only briefly when she talks

If she earns it (she seems to be interested in what's going on), you can reward her by turning your body language a bit and perhaps showing more interest and eye contact when she's speaking.

Although on the surface, this is making you seem not needy, it has another function: If you get INTERRUPTED, as you say you are, you don't lose face.

See, if you're fully turned toward someone and engaged in a conversation and then someone interrupts your partner, it hurts you socially, especially if she doesn't immediately return her interest to you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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