"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Always get hard when grinding with a girl

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Last night i was out and dancing a lot because my game is good on the dancefloor, but I always seem to have this problem....

When i'm dancing with a girl and we almost start grinding or dancing really tight i always get hard. Before i haven't given it much thought, but after i read it on another PUA site, that girls don't like it, my focus has shifted...what can I do to fix this? or should i just don't care about it?

Thx for answers :p
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You seriously have a lot to learn.


In my own experience, I've gotten hard while grinding before and never had any girls complain to me about it. There's no reason for you to even care.
 
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yeah i know i have a lot to learn, but i'm learning every day :) i try at least

But my game is far from solid outside of the dancefloor, and i have heard i'm a good dancer so i try to stay there and escalate
 
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NorwegianViking93 said:
Last night i was out and dancing a lot because my game is good on the dancefloor, but I always seem to have this problem....

When i'm dancing with a girl and we almost start grinding or dancing really tight i always get hard. Before i haven't given it much thought, but after i read it on another PUA site, that girls don't like it, my focus has shifted...what can I do to fix this? or should i just don't care about it?

Thx for answers :p
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Are you serious? Why would girls grind with you if they didn't want you to get hard? Why wouldn't they like it?

Just get a grip man seriously.
 
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You come from a heritage of Vikings, man. You simply DO NOT apologize for being a man or be ashamed of it. Grind that wood on her ass like a pestle!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I read the subject line and thought that it was advice, lol.
 
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I outlast chicks in bed, but I get a boner dancing sometimes. Just own it and be proud of it, you cant control it. If you have to, rub one out a couple hours before. Or try some different underwear, I like boxers but somedays I wear briefs. You can tuck it better...
 
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Never apologize or feel guilty for your natural, healthy sexual response or respectful expressed sexual interest. Took me 30 years to learn this and the last 20 have definitely been better than the first 30. Don't repeat my mistakes.
 
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I get boners pretty easy as well, dont really care about it anymore. I've had a couple girls boast how they made me hard grinding on me or just making out with me. I usually just reply with "Getting me hard is easy, making me ***....now thats the challenge"
 
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