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Always get hard when grinding with a girl

NorwegianViking93

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Last night i was out and dancing a lot because my game is good on the dancefloor, but I always seem to have this problem....

When i'm dancing with a girl and we almost start grinding or dancing really tight i always get hard. Before i haven't given it much thought, but after i read it on another PUA site, that girls don't like it, my focus has shifted...what can I do to fix this? or should i just don't care about it?

Thx for answers :p
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gray The Prince

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You seriously have a lot to learn.


In my own experience, I've gotten hard while grinding before and never had any girls complain to me about it. There's no reason for you to even care.
 

NorwegianViking93

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yeah i know i have a lot to learn, but i'm learning every day :) i try at least

But my game is far from solid outside of the dancefloor, and i have heard i'm a good dancer so i try to stay there and escalate
 

christoff522

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NorwegianViking93 said:
Last night i was out and dancing a lot because my game is good on the dancefloor, but I always seem to have this problem....

When i'm dancing with a girl and we almost start grinding or dancing really tight i always get hard. Before i haven't given it much thought, but after i read it on another PUA site, that girls don't like it, my focus has shifted...what can I do to fix this? or should i just don't care about it?

Thx for answers :p
Are you serious? Why would girls grind with you if they didn't want you to get hard? Why wouldn't they like it?

Just get a grip man seriously.
 

VladPatton

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You come from a heritage of Vikings, man. You simply DO NOT apologize for being a man or be ashamed of it. Grind that wood on her ass like a pestle!
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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zekko

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I read the subject line and thought that it was advice, lol.
 

Special EDy

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I outlast chicks in bed, but I get a boner dancing sometimes. Just own it and be proud of it, you cant control it. If you have to, rub one out a couple hours before. Or try some different underwear, I like boxers but somedays I wear briefs. You can tuck it better...
 

dasein

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Never apologize or feel guilty for your natural, healthy sexual response or respectful expressed sexual interest. Took me 30 years to learn this and the last 20 have definitely been better than the first 30. Don't repeat my mistakes.
 

old_skoolr

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I get boners pretty easy as well, dont really care about it anymore. I've had a couple girls boast how they made me hard grinding on me or just making out with me. I usually just reply with "Getting me hard is easy, making me ***....now thats the challenge"
 
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