"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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always carry a prop when going hunting for females!

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always carry a prop when going hunting for females!
:rockon: I find it easy to meet chicks. Chicks likes pretty things so carry a bag or something a chick would buy that way she would like to know for who did you buy it for.

What do you think guys?:rockon:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Carry a purse, makeup or a little Pekingese? No, I don't think so.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Carry a purse, makeup or a little Pekingese? No, I don't think so.

No not that kind of girls stuff. My sister works at the mall and she made me this Janet Jackson shirt of airbrush and this black girl walks up to me and starts talking where did i get it and if i like her music. See that worked!! :rockon: :yes:
 

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No not that kind of girls stuff. My sister works at the mall and she made me this Janet Jackson shirt of airbrush and this black girl walks up to me and starts talking where did i get it and if i like her music. See that worked!! :rockon: :yes:

Why not just be a man? Works for me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I always carry a prop, but I don't usually walk around holding it in my hand - someone would call the cops.
 

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Vulpine said:
I always carry a prop, but I don't usually walk around holding it in my hand - someone would call the cops.
haha, that's a great way of lookin at it.

Purses are for girls and fags
 

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yeah, what the ****?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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damn, people...I think its a good idea, probably not original, but it works pretty well. As a matter of fact, it can help people who are scared of approaches draw the ladies in instead. *shoulder shrug*
 

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I don't know. I've seen guys do the puppy in the park thing, the little cousin in the mall thing, the giant teddy bear thing at the amusement park and the like. Personally I'd rather focus on the woman's interest in me and not what I have in tow.
 

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This is another conversation tip that I have read about - using a prop. And no you don't use something gay like a European carry all. Use a prop like a cool hat, or pin, or tie tack when going out to a bar or club. Then have a good story to go along with it. Like how you got the hat while on safari in Kenya or something to open up more lines of a converation.

Also, for conversations, look for her "props", same thing, like a broach, or cool necklace, then ask her about it to get her talking.

Its not something that will carry your approach or conversation, but something else to throw in to keep it going.
 

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rocky_mtn said:
...Its not something that will carry your approach or conversation, but something else to throw in to keep it going.
But this is what the original poster was suggesting, to use a prop as an approach opener.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
But this is what the original poster was suggesting, to use a prop as an approach opener.
Why not approach her first? Let the target carry the prop and you do your job as a man and approach her if she gives you ec/smile.

Point is, the tip is stupid. 95 in 100 women will not approach.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"I am metrosexual, hear me roar"??? :p
lol funny thing is this summer I've been working on Fashion and style because my style now isn't congruent with who I am, Metrosexual look is more congruent lol. I don't really see nothing wrong with making sure your clean and well groomed. But ya props do get girls to open you because I had this shirt with slyvester on it and some girl walks by saying "You can't have slyvester without the tweety"

Ya it may look gay on some people but if you know your not gay who gives a sh!t. Some PUAs use Gay frames to disarm girls because they don't have there walls up anymore, due to the fact he can't be hitting on you if he is gay. Which then brings me to the guy who was in the fashion industry and ****ed thousands of models by acting like he was gay her in NY. In the end he was never really gay, but if anyone have notice girls get attracted when your talking about fashion and stuff like nails and smooth skin. This one girl loved my nails and they way how my hair on my arms are in one direction, all this stuff that you would think "Who gives a fuvk"
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I don't know. I've seen guys do the puppy in the park thing, the little cousin in the mall thing, the giant teddy bear thing at the amusement park and the like. Personally I'd rather focus on the woman's interest in me and not what I have in tow.
I don't know bro...that puppy idea is golden. i mean, one time when I was like 15, I had 20 something hb 9's blowing kisses and s.hit at me while I was walking my dog. And my dog wasn't even a puppy or fluff ball that girls traditionally like!
 

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ValleyDJing said:
I don't know bro...that puppy idea is golden. i mean, one time when I was like 15, I had 20 something hb 9's blowing kisses and s.hit at me while I was walking my dog. And my dog wasn't even a puppy or fluff ball that girls traditionally like!
I'm not saying that it doesn't work but what guys fail to ask themselves is why they work. What feelings do these things evoke in women and how can a guy illicit those same things without the prop. The reason why I'm wary on relying on the prop is that it taints the reason(s) why the woman seems to be interested in you, is she truly interested in you or in your pet?

I tend to approach women with pets more so. A women with an "item" which she enjoys talking about is easily read. Hell, she'll tell you practically anything that's on her mind about her pet, her life, you!

I'm a huge proponent of DJs using their personalities to attract women. Albeit props work but I see way too often both on-line and off, guys depending on these things as a crutch and have no idea what to do without that thing to lean upon.
 

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The right color passport.
 

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What else should I do to make the little girlies like me? Shall I learn a little dance. "Excuse me missus, I'd like to do a little dance for you... oh, and won't you take a look at this here fancy watch I got when rescuing children from a fire in Paris? By the way, I suck ****. Please sleep with me!"

Sorry I think anybody desperate enough to act gay just to get laid is better off just taking the plunge and finally tell their parents that they like men.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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