"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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always carry a prop when going hunting for females!

Derek Flint

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No need for Props, Canned Routines, Card Tricks, Palm Reading, The Cube or any of that other Entertainment Monkey crap.

Have a Strong Frame. Be Confident. Be a Man. Have a "No Excuses" mindset.

That's all you need.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I'm not saying that it doesn't work but what guys fail to ask themselves is why they work. What feelings do these things evoke in women and how can a guy illicit those same things without the prop. The reason why I'm wary on relying on the prop is that it taints the reason(s) why the woman seems to be interested in you, is she truly interested in you or in your pet?

I tend to approach women with pets more so. A women with an "item" which she enjoys talking about is easily read. Hell, she'll tell you practically anything that's on her mind about her pet, her life, you!

I'm a huge proponent of DJs using their personalities to attract women. Albeit props work but I see way too often both on-line and off, guys depending on these things as a crutch and have no idea what to do without that thing to lean upon.
definitely true, but its still fun, (not to mention a quick shot of confidence). besides, I still don't think a girl would go out with a guy lower than her standards even if he had the cutest little puppy in world you know?
 
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