"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ALWAYS ask 2.

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I learned this trick from a buddy in school a couple of years back.
Always ask 2 or more girls out on the SAME date.
Today I used this trick to the FULLEST effect. I asked 2 girls to go paintballing earlier during the week and both accepted. Then I decided to take the hotter one on the date but still keep the other girl on the back burner.

1 ) You get to flake on one of them , which in this generation it's almost impossible for a woman to get flaked on due to the amount of orbiters and betas.

2) You regain your natural manhood of being able to CHOOSE.

Anyways , 3 hours before the time we scheduled. ..one of them sent me a flake text about how her mother needed something to be finished around the scheduled time and she will let me know if she finishes on time , I simply said " it's okay life happens".
I then gave the other girl a call and told her i was a le to finish my work on time and she should get ready. Had a fun date , took some pictures and posted them on my Facebook.

Now the girl that flaked , called me twice and sent me 2 messages , saying she is sorry and we should try again next week.
Lool I will sleep on the text and msg her tomorrow " I will consider it when my schedule frees up "
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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it's amazing how much women show interest after they see that there's competition lol
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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This is pretty great. It's about time we got some new info going on here. Repped :up:

Edit: Is there something like this in the DJ Bible? I haven't read the entire thing (honestly, I don't think anyone has) and would like to know. If not, we should put something like this in there. srsly
 

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The social media part is a great example of how it should be used.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yewki

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Fitters said:
Had a fun date , took some pictures and posted them on my Facebook.

Now the girl that flaked , called me twice and sent me 2 messages , saying she is sorry and we should try again next week.
Gawter :up:

Fitters said:
Lool I will sleep on the text and msg her tomorrow " I will consider it when my schedule frees up"
Meh, the "I will consder it" is a tad too arrogant IMO. Would use something not quite as ****y, like just "I'll let you know when my shcedule frees up"
 

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I wouldn't do this personally. Just because some girls will flake on you, that doesn't mean two wrongs make a right. Setting yourself up to intentionally flake on someone is just injecting more bad behavior into the dating world, and maybe feeding your own ego. It's only spreading more bad karma. Seriously, what a lousy policy.
 

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At this day and age, you almost have to do this. If you really want to have a good night out, you shouldn't feel bad about asking 2 because no woman will ever feel bad about flaking on you.

Agreed that is increases your desirability to women. Women love men who have options.

Repped.
 
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