"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ALWAYS ask 2.

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I learned this trick from a buddy in school a couple of years back.
Always ask 2 or more girls out on the SAME date.
Today I used this trick to the FULLEST effect. I asked 2 girls to go paintballing earlier during the week and both accepted. Then I decided to take the hotter one on the date but still keep the other girl on the back burner.

1 ) You get to flake on one of them , which in this generation it's almost impossible for a woman to get flaked on due to the amount of orbiters and betas.

2) You regain your natural manhood of being able to CHOOSE.

Anyways , 3 hours before the time we scheduled. ..one of them sent me a flake text about how her mother needed something to be finished around the scheduled time and she will let me know if she finishes on time , I simply said " it's okay life happens".
I then gave the other girl a call and told her i was a le to finish my work on time and she should get ready. Had a fun date , took some pictures and posted them on my Facebook.

Now the girl that flaked , called me twice and sent me 2 messages , saying she is sorry and we should try again next week.
Lool I will sleep on the text and msg her tomorrow " I will consider it when my schedule frees up "
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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it's amazing how much women show interest after they see that there's competition lol
 

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This is pretty great. It's about time we got some new info going on here. Repped :up:

Edit: Is there something like this in the DJ Bible? I haven't read the entire thing (honestly, I don't think anyone has) and would like to know. If not, we should put something like this in there. srsly
 

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The social media part is a great example of how it should be used.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fitters said:
Had a fun date , took some pictures and posted them on my Facebook.

Now the girl that flaked , called me twice and sent me 2 messages , saying she is sorry and we should try again next week.
Gawter :up:

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Lool I will sleep on the text and msg her tomorrow " I will consider it when my schedule frees up"
Meh, the "I will consder it" is a tad too arrogant IMO. Would use something not quite as ****y, like just "I'll let you know when my shcedule frees up"
 

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I wouldn't do this personally. Just because some girls will flake on you, that doesn't mean two wrongs make a right. Setting yourself up to intentionally flake on someone is just injecting more bad behavior into the dating world, and maybe feeding your own ego. It's only spreading more bad karma. Seriously, what a lousy policy.
 

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At this day and age, you almost have to do this. If you really want to have a good night out, you shouldn't feel bad about asking 2 because no woman will ever feel bad about flaking on you.

Agreed that is increases your desirability to women. Women love men who have options.

Repped.
 
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