"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Always another guy they're waiting on

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What's with girls lately? I met this girl, we made out and did 'stuff' but she told me she's decided that she's going to wait for her ex b/f who's in Afghanistan right now (marines).

I've found this with other girls too. How they have a crush on a guy who doesnt like them or the guy already has a girlfriend and they're waiting on them (because of how HOT they are).

What are guys like us to do? DJ'ing works with girls who are open minded to new guys coming there way but what about girls that have 'this' problem of being obsessed. I think many girls are like this and it blows. It means I can hump them when they're drunk or when they're mad at the guy for some reason but thats it!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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nan3109, This is balance which is out of hand. You see, its not how you like a girl. it's how she is attracted to you. What's with these guys that girls are running after? Simple because they are attracted to them. They are not the "what with these girls lately" they are always a woman.

They might talk about what they like, how they like but then if they became attracted to someone, it doesn't matter what they really like or how they like. Are you with me?

So again it is not how you like her or how attrractive she is to you, but how much she feels the attraction.

Attraction is the main key.

if Attraction is absent, why should she be interested in the first place?
 
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You must be some sort of toy to them .. and the guys they're interested in appear more 'manly' to them.

Not putting you down, but do you get all playful i.e. childish? These girls sound beyond the high school BS.
 
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hmm is that so? that explains why those girls i've nexted always appear to have high IL whenever i run into them in the future.

But then again those girls barely had bf's and are probably living in fairly land, wiating for the guy to come around....
 
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