"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Always angry?

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For the past few years people have been telling me that I always look angry. Looking at myself in the mirror it's true. My neutral facial expression is that of someone who's a little angry even though I'm not. Sure I can raise my eyebrows a bit and fix the issue but it's feels too forced. I have maybe two causes

1: Lack of sufficient sleep. I notice the angry, serious neutral facial expression is gone a bit if I actually sleep enough.

2: Bottled up anger

Anybody has/had an angry, serious looking neutral facial expression and managed to fix it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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badboyjmm

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Think positive and smile
 

wjh

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It's just a phase man, don't worry about it.

Dark and brooding. You're what turns 17 year old girls on, don't sweat it and keep going after these girls.

Enjoy your youth!
 

Groovy

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Maybe you have dark circles under your eyes or something. You could use your face being more fresh and a clear skin maybe. Your face could look more nourished...

If you really are angry then you got to find ways to fix that. Try some exercise, etc, you know.

Maybe you have a low thyroid- that leads to dry and rough skin...

I think that I read somewhere that maca is good for your skin and propolis could be good for the face particularly... Not sure however.

Maybe you should have posted more details in your post. Of course, it may be your genetics too! Good luck. :)
 

Maxtro

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Whenever I'm at home by myself odds are I'm angry. Have been for the last seven years or so. Thankfully for me it doesn't show when I'm out.

It's really bad anytime I don't have mental stimulation. It sucks trying to enjoy a nice bike ride or trying to fall asleep at night when I'm pissed. It's anger at the world and myself.

The best way to deal with it, is to remove the source of anger, but that's easier said than done.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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