Always Act Like They Want You (Because They Do)

[Mr. Bond]

Just a great example of the need to push onward to the next step with any girl.

I went out to a bar tonight with my buddy. I met tons of girls, some of which he already knew. I gamed them all, and I had fun with them all. I felt as though I was playing my cards right, but for the most part I didn't get any concrete signs that I was doing my sh!t the right way. I did get 4 phone numbers tonight, but overall the girls played it cool and didn't show any overt signs of interest.

We got home, and my buddy told me, "Dude, you killed it tonight." I replied, "Ummm, I thought it went okay. I just had fun and didn't give a fvck. Why do you say that? It was okay."

His reply was, "Dude, every time you left to talk to someone else, the entire group of women was like 'Where did Mr. Bond go?'...and as soon as we walked in, the hottest girl in my group of friends asked who you were and if you were single. They couldn't stop talking about you ALL NIGHT."

Which was funnny...as I said, they all played it very cool in front of me. So moral of the story is this - stick to the DJ principles even if it doesn't look like you're getting crazy good responses. They may just be playing it cool. Push onward. I'm gonna bang the b!tchiest/most challenging one soon just for fun. >: D

 

[PlayHer Man]

My rule has always been "Keep going until she stops you".

If you touch her ass and she doesn't stop you, then kiss her. If she lets you do that.. then f*ck her.

 

[Tiguere]

We call it.... MAKE THE H0E SAY NO

 

[rrrrr]

Interesting, so you're saying they weren't giving you any signs whatsoever of being into you?

 

[Mr. Bond]

Interesting, so you're saying they weren't giving you any signs whatsoever of being into you?

There were a few small ones. But overall nothing obvious. Certainly nothing like they were saying to each other and my friend.

Funny ****, two more girls from last night slipped their numbers to my buddy and asked him to give it to me.

 

[dosquito]

God damn Mr. Bond, what kind of **** are you on man? What do you look like when you go out?

 

[NobodyCares1]

Agree, though it depends on a girl, some will show signs of interest, some will play it cool and some will be b!tchy.

I have experience with all. One girl was really b!tchy so I was rude to her too, but then grabbed around her waist and pulled her close to me and within a minute we were making out.

With other I was just talking, almost no escalation, no signs of interest from her. Then I told her "Let's go for a walk" put my arm around her and after a while pulled her aside and went for the kill.

So don't get discouraged, though sometimes she might be seriously not interested. Sometimes it's hard to tell but I usually feel it in my gut if she is interested or not.

 

[Trump]

- Just a great example of the need to push onward to the next step with any girl.
- as soon as we walked in, the hottest girl in my group of friends asked who you were and if you were single.
-so moral of the story is this - stick to the DJ principles even if it doesn't look like you're getting crazy good responses. They may just be playing it cool. Push onward.

Or you could just look hot.

Come on bro, how can you push onward and upward with tight game when the hottest girl in the bar wanted to meet you without you saying a word?

Your success had some to do with your game, all to do with your looks.

 

[NobodyCares1]

Or you could just look hot.

Come on bro, how can you push onward and upward with tight game when the hottest girl in the bar wanted to meet you without you saying a word?

Your success had some to do with your game, all to do with your looks.

Lol, obviously you have no experience with women.

 

[bigneil]

This is very true, even more so after you've been dating for a while.

There will come times when she displays signs of low interest, and our tendency is to want to complain about it, and say "you don't like me anymore", hoping she will say we are wrong. Bad idea. It comes off as insecure and whiny, and as soon as she realizes you are wondering if she is attracted to you or not, she won't be.

Therefore, you need to fill in the down times with periods of Limited Contact - let that be the normalizing factor. When she acts distant, become distant until she reels you back in, but never suggest you think she's not attracted or it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

 

[Mr. Bond]

Or you could just look hot.

Come on bro, how can you push onward and upward with tight game when the hottest girl in the bar wanted to meet you without you saying a word?

Your success had some to do with your game, all to do with your looks.

Nah. I'm not ugly or anything, but I'm not a model either. Pretty average in the looks department.

However, I was the best dressed guy in the bar and I carried myself knowing that I'm the fvcking man. Those are things you don't need to talk to someone to see.


I know jack sh!t about fashion, so I find girls in the mall (or the occasional gay guy if no hotties are around) and I ask their opinions about what I could wear in certain situations. I obviously get the final approval - I have to like the things they're recommending. I look much better when I go out now, and I get lots of compliments on my clothes from women.

Since I'm becoming a little more aware of how to dress myself, I've started to notice a lot of details that women put into their look. It allows me to compliment them on things that most guys would never even notice. They eat that sh!t up because my compliments are sincere, and I don't have an agenda behind them.

Also, most of my game is nonverbal.

 

[Mr. Bond]

God damn Mr. Bond, what kind of **** are you on man? What do you look like when you go out?

Viagra. B!tches get a flash flood warning in their panties when they see a guy walking around with a contact-your-doctor-if-you-have-a-four-hour-erection boner.

 

[JohnChops]

Nah. I'm not ugly or anything, but I'm not a model either. Pretty average in the looks department.

However, I was the best dressed guy in the bar and I carried myself knowing that I'm the fvcking man. Those are things you don't need to talk to someone to see.


I know jack sh!t about fashion, so I find girls in the mall (or the occasional gay guy if no hotties are around) and I ask their opinions about what I could wear in certain situations. I obviously get the final approval - I have to like the things they're recommending. I look much better when I go out now, and I get lots of compliments on my clothes from women.

Since I'm becoming a little more aware of how to dress myself, I've started to notice a lot of details that women put into their look. It allows me to compliment them on things that most guys would never even notice. They eat that sh!t up because my compliments are sincere, and I don't have an agenda behind them.

Also, most of my game is nonverbal.

Aka inner game fellas

 

[Mr. Bond]

Aka inner game fellas

Yes! Not what you say, but HOW you say it and what you do. I walked into Bath and Body Works the other day and asked a hot girl if she just works there so she can fart all day and no one will know. I left with her number. I guarantee others with weak inner game could say what I said verbatim and get shot down hard.

 

[nroug7]

Yes! Not what you say, but HOW you say it and what you do. I walked into Bath and Body Works the other day and asked a hot girl if she just works there so she can fart all day and no one will know. I left with her number. I guarantee others with weak inner game could say what I said verbatim and get shot down hard.

You know, every time I come back to these forums I feel slightly sick... and do you know why?
Because when I'm here, I'm allowed to think, and thinking makes me sick, my instinct is much sharper then my mind when it comes to women, but when I come back to these forums my mind is allowed to wander and drown itself.

Protip: When talking to women, don't think of anything, don't think "Does she like me" or anything similar, just talk. The rest comes naturally.

 

[Mr. Bond]

Amen, +rep to both of you for getting it.

 

[nroug7]

Ha thanks, I have a saying, I'll leave it here since I think it's fitting.
"A well placed fist is dangerous, but claws are even deadlier."

 

[bigneil]

Even if she rejects you and stays with her boyfriend, a woman still might be interested in you, and if you can pleasantly walk away, and legitimately no longer be interested, and especially if you hang out in her vicinity (i.e. eat at her restaurant, work with her, etc) she will often start to extend certain overtures a few weeks later and you'll get another chance.

 

[Zarky]

I gamed them all, and I had fun with them all. I felt as though I was playing my cards right, but for the most part I didn't get any concrete signs that I was doing my sh!t the right way.

The guys at RSD say that the man who gets laid is the one who "entertains himself, always." Not the guy who's trying to entertain everyone else.

I've found this to be true. When you're having a good time and not trying to entertain women but are just entertaining yourself and sort of living in your own moment, that's when they all get inta ya.