"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alternative Training

DJBen

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Normally, you see people with a four day split or something. Well, if you feel like you're eating right and you're lifting right, but STILL cant gain - try the following. You can do it all at once, or you can do one half early on in the day, and the other half later:

Day 1: [8X3]

Squat
Good Mornings
Deadlift
Bench
Shoulder Press
Bi curl

Day 2:

OFF

Day 3:

Now's the time to train calfs and forearms. Go heavy and really hit them hard.

Also, do a high-rep full-body workout, where you wont go to failure or wont push yourself too hard. It'll stimulate different parts of the muscle than the heavy workout. I'm sure you can knock one up yourselves based on preferance. I find 2X20 is ideal. This is based on the idea of active recovery.

Day 4:

OFF

Day 5: [5X5]

Squat/Leg Press
Deadlift/T-bar [not both, you'll be dead by the end]
Bench
Dips
Pull ups

Day 6:

OFF

Day 7:

OFF



Some of you might scream "You're overtraining! You cant do that, it's insane!". Well, I did the same until I tried it. In 3-4 weeks, my strength gains have come up out of the blue, and I'm starting to pack on some good muscle again. To make it easier, split it up into 2 workouts for the one day - Upper and lower. Always do squats and deads together. Throw some shrugs in whenever you feel up for them. Only do shrugs the once.

If you're serious about making gains, then trying this for 4-5 weeks would be a good idea. It's working for me, and it could work for you too. Just dont get stuck thinking you have to do the MAX-OT/HIT method just because the latest bodybuilding superstar does!
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ahhh... DJB , DJB... haha... as WE are always honest with eachother.... i am going to say.. "Each to their own" I personally, will NOT be trying this......BUT..... if its working for YOU... great... keep up the good work Bud! :)
 

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It's basically worked around the "two full-body workouts a week" method, with active recovery in between... it's just staggered around a bit so I can put more effort into my weaker parts ;)
 

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Whoa. Dunno about that, you'll be hating life after those two days. I don't think I've ever seen a day set for calves and forearms only.
 

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Let me just edit something in there... maybe it wasnt too clear.

Job done - it now reads a *whole body workout* with only light reps.

I'm usually sore the day after, and thats it. It's weird, but it's working! :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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