"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJBen

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Normally, you see people with a four day split or something. Well, if you feel like you're eating right and you're lifting right, but STILL cant gain - try the following. You can do it all at once, or you can do one half early on in the day, and the other half later:

Day 1: [8X3]

Squat
Good Mornings
Deadlift
Bench
Shoulder Press
Bi curl

Day 2:

OFF

Day 3:

Now's the time to train calfs and forearms. Go heavy and really hit them hard.

Also, do a high-rep full-body workout, where you wont go to failure or wont push yourself too hard. It'll stimulate different parts of the muscle than the heavy workout. I'm sure you can knock one up yourselves based on preferance. I find 2X20 is ideal. This is based on the idea of active recovery.

Day 4:

OFF

Day 5: [5X5]

Squat/Leg Press
Deadlift/T-bar [not both, you'll be dead by the end]
Bench
Dips
Pull ups

Day 6:

OFF

Day 7:

OFF



Some of you might scream "You're overtraining! You cant do that, it's insane!". Well, I did the same until I tried it. In 3-4 weeks, my strength gains have come up out of the blue, and I'm starting to pack on some good muscle again. To make it easier, split it up into 2 workouts for the one day - Upper and lower. Always do squats and deads together. Throw some shrugs in whenever you feel up for them. Only do shrugs the once.

If you're serious about making gains, then trying this for 4-5 weeks would be a good idea. It's working for me, and it could work for you too. Just dont get stuck thinking you have to do the MAX-OT/HIT method just because the latest bodybuilding superstar does!
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ahhh... DJB , DJB... haha... as WE are always honest with eachother.... i am going to say.. "Each to their own" I personally, will NOT be trying this......BUT..... if its working for YOU... great... keep up the good work Bud! :)
 

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It's basically worked around the "two full-body workouts a week" method, with active recovery in between... it's just staggered around a bit so I can put more effort into my weaker parts ;)
 

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Whoa. Dunno about that, you'll be hating life after those two days. I don't think I've ever seen a day set for calves and forearms only.
 

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Let me just edit something in there... maybe it wasnt too clear.

Job done - it now reads a *whole body workout* with only light reps.

I'm usually sore the day after, and thats it. It's weird, but it's working! :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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