Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Alternative to cold-approaches

Kalel21

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Hi gentlemen,

I just wanted to ask. Does anyone know better alternatives to cold approaching?

I have been shot down so many times that I have nearly given up. I am 26 and have been doing this for years.

What is the alternative to meeting 8-10's since most of them hang out at nightclubs anyway?

are nightclubs even a good place to meet models and the like?

thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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trent81

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make money, get some cocaine, or meet new friends. The only relationships that work are transactional relationships, meaning, ones that you meet through friends, activities, acquaintances, or organizations.
 

taiyuu_otoko

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get a job as a bartender

Make friends like ^^ said.

take some classes at a JC, and figure out which classes have girls. Acting classes are usually a good place, I've had luck there. Public speaking classes are also gold.
 

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There are tons of good looking girls that dont go clubbing. Like someone said earlier, expand your social network as big as possible, guys included. You'll meet more women that way. Also take on some hobbies or interests, join some clubs. You can also try Meetup, they have various social activities that you can attend.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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