"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alternative to cold-approaches

Kalel21

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Hi gentlemen,

I just wanted to ask. Does anyone know better alternatives to cold approaching?

I have been shot down so many times that I have nearly given up. I am 26 and have been doing this for years.

What is the alternative to meeting 8-10's since most of them hang out at nightclubs anyway?

are nightclubs even a good place to meet models and the like?

thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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trent81

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make money, get some cocaine, or meet new friends. The only relationships that work are transactional relationships, meaning, ones that you meet through friends, activities, acquaintances, or organizations.
 

taiyuu_otoko

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get a job as a bartender

Make friends like ^^ said.

take some classes at a JC, and figure out which classes have girls. Acting classes are usually a good place, I've had luck there. Public speaking classes are also gold.
 

Junkyard

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There are tons of good looking girls that dont go clubbing. Like someone said earlier, expand your social network as big as possible, guys included. You'll meet more women that way. Also take on some hobbies or interests, join some clubs. You can also try Meetup, they have various social activities that you can attend.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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