"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ricky

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I squatted too heavy and hurt my back like an idiot. I've taken 2 weeks off of lifting. (although I did play alot of basketball one of the weeks)

My back feels OK now, but I am hesitant to do heavy squats or leg presses.

So I am thinking of doing sprint training and using hamstring curls and calf raises.

I also hurt my shoulder while benching. I am going to do lighter work with dumbbells, and or go for a more narrow grip on the bench, which will work more of my triceps, but also limit the strain on my shoulder.

I'm thinking of going to a more functional strength workout. Adding pullups for my back and arms and dips (instead of the lat pulldown, skullcrunchers or triceps dummbell extensions, and heavy dumbbell curls for the bicep).

I think this will give me a break from the heavy training I've been doing without causing too much decline in mass.

Does anyone else have any other good training ideas for someone with injuries?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The-Missing-Link

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You could pay more attention to your abs and lower back, at least i did that when i injured my shoulder. It paid off too.
 

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Why don't you work on your form at lower weights instead of getting a big ego by lifting heavy weights with bad form?
 

Ricky

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I thought I was being pretty careful with form. I've been lifting for several years, but my weights were starting to get a fair amount heavier than they used to be, by persistent training.

I don't think my shoulders were ready for the weight I was using that day.

It was in the heavy, low rep range 5-6 reps.
 

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If you are lifting with proper form I don't even know how you could mess up your back. You wear a belt when squatting right?

You're back should remain straight for each rep there should be no movement anywhere except in your legs.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Soshyopathe

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If you wear a belt during lifting, you don't develop your inner core of power. Your inner abs under the rectus abdominus and spinal erectors don't get worked like they should. You're asking for injury down the road if you train with a belt.

Before you start squatting heavy, do heavy abwork for a few weeks. Hug a plate and crunch on an incline bench. Do some hyperextensions or goodmornings for your lower back. When you're ready to step inside the power rack again, start in the 12 rep range, and work your way back down to 8 or so. A 5-6 rep squat is hard work for anyone. It's not dishonorable to take a few plates off so you can go down slower, back straiter, ass lower. The experienced guys will respect you for it.
 

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This happened to me awhile ago, but because I hurt my back clean and jerking, then reinjured it squatting. Nothing major though. What you do is tighten your abs like a plate of armor when you're squatting or cleaning. This works WONDERS, not to mention works more muscles when you do the actual exercise. Haven't had any back problems since.
 

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Yeah I didn't use a belt and I probably didn't tighten my abs.

I'm taking a bit of time off squats. I took 2 weeks off of lifting alltogether due to a shoulder injury as well.

I will be more careful that's for sure!
 
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