"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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These are the emails i exchanged with a hot 35 year old from the internet through a dating/intimate encounters website. The last time i emailed her was this past Wed., but haven't heard anything back since, and i'm left wondering. Here are the exact emails exchanged, except i'm gonna use different names for us. Here goes....


My 1st email initiating contact:

"What's up, i'm Rob, pg. 3- AZ, i'd like to talk...if you prefer IM, my yahoo screen name is X...talk to you later."


Her response:

"HEY HEY!

Thanks for the email! My yahoo name is X.

Lookin good!

Lata
Julie"


My response:

"What's up- Thanks for the comp. I just added you to my list, what's a good time for you to chat?"



What could've went wrong??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There is one facet of online dating sites that I haven't seen discussed here before that is likely to be the cause of her lack of response...

She lost interest in you because she started to talk to someone else and connected with them on some level and that's where her focus is now. Don't feel bad, though...it happens all the time. Unless you are able to get an instant "connection" on some level with someone on a dating site you should expect this to happen...it's inevitable.
 
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Originally posted by Wyldfire
There is one facet of online dating sites that I haven't seen discussed here before that is likely to be the cause of her lack of response...

She lost interest in you because she started to talk to someone else and connected with them on some level and that's where her focus is now. Don't feel bad, though...it happens all the time. Unless you are able to get an instant "connection" on some level with someone on a dating site you should expect this to happen...it's inevitable.
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Should i email her again and give it one more shot??
 
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Originally posted by No Escape
Should i email her again and give it one more shot??
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Nope...if she wanted to keep talking she would have answered the last e-mail you sent. If you don't answer her and she had any interest at all she'll eventually write back. Just talk to others and if you connect with anyone try to set up a face to face meeting as soon as possible.
 
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