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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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These are the emails i exchanged with a hot 35 year old from the internet through a dating/intimate encounters website. The last time i emailed her was this past Wed., but haven't heard anything back since, and i'm left wondering. Here are the exact emails exchanged, except i'm gonna use different names for us. Here goes....


My 1st email initiating contact:

"What's up, i'm Rob, pg. 3- AZ, i'd like to talk...if you prefer IM, my yahoo screen name is X...talk to you later."


Her response:

"HEY HEY!

Thanks for the email! My yahoo name is X.

Lookin good!

Lata
Julie"


My response:

"What's up- Thanks for the comp. I just added you to my list, what's a good time for you to chat?"



What could've went wrong??
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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There is one facet of online dating sites that I haven't seen discussed here before that is likely to be the cause of her lack of response...

She lost interest in you because she started to talk to someone else and connected with them on some level and that's where her focus is now. Don't feel bad, though...it happens all the time. Unless you are able to get an instant "connection" on some level with someone on a dating site you should expect this to happen...it's inevitable.
 
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Originally posted by Wyldfire
There is one facet of online dating sites that I haven't seen discussed here before that is likely to be the cause of her lack of response...

She lost interest in you because she started to talk to someone else and connected with them on some level and that's where her focus is now. Don't feel bad, though...it happens all the time. Unless you are able to get an instant "connection" on some level with someone on a dating site you should expect this to happen...it's inevitable.
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Should i email her again and give it one more shot??
 
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Originally posted by No Escape
Should i email her again and give it one more shot??
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Nope...if she wanted to keep talking she would have answered the last e-mail you sent. If you don't answer her and she had any interest at all she'll eventually write back. Just talk to others and if you connect with anyone try to set up a face to face meeting as soon as possible.
 
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