"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alright, so I got this car.. now I need some SOUND!

AC/DC

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Here's some pics of my car for the curious:


THE FRONT (Yes, there is a missing grill()
EXTERIOR LEFT SIDE
INTERIOR

Well, now I have about $160 I want to spend refurbishing my sound system. Firstly, I want subwoofers, and an amplifier (I will make my own box for the subs).

No idea about much of anything, all I know is I want a system that will tear your face off FOR CHEAP.

Any ideas?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Save, save, save.....buy rockford.

You don't want to go CHEAP when it comes to a car system.

How big is the trunk...? I can't see it to good from the pics. From what I can tell it look's pretty avg, size. I'd go with two 12's. And whatever you do.....don't buy those gay a$$ speakers from wal-mart! :p

Me and my friend built a box for his p3 15.....it was a B*TCH to build but kind've fun. If your going to build your own box make sure you get some good calk and get the right dimensions for the holes. It took me and my friend about three days, that was working about two hours a day.

I prefer taking it to a stereo shop that specializes in instillations but you can go for it if you want.


Goodluck.
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC
Oops, move this to anything else please!
God, sebastian, pay attention!

edit: 1.8t what are you gay? :p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You need to save up more money. $160 will basically get you a cheap to mid-range deck and installation if it's a cheaper one.
 

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Originally posted by InsidiousNstinct
Save, save, save.....buy rockford.

So very true Rockfords are the best. I have 4 regular Rockford speakers in my car and they sound great, even without a sub. Anyway just so you know when I bought my head unit and 10 disc MP3 Cd Changer 2.5 years ago it cost about $630 just for those two items at Circuit City and about 1.5 years I bought my speakers at Best Buy and they cost $99 for a pair.
 
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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Nevermind. Sell it and get a used Acura or BMW, or something. No Jettas for DJs! :p
I wouldn't say that. Pre-1999 Jetta's were cool, and I like the looks of that body style. After 1999 they switched to the current body style, and while it's still a nice car, it's known as more of a girl's car. But the one's before that look manly.

I actually wanted one myself, but I took my dad's old car instead so I didn't have to buy a car on my own (my parents weren't gonna pay for it).
 

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VR6 Jettas have a little bit of punch to them. Not bad cars at all.

You'll need a lot more money for a nice sound system than 160 bucks. In my Camaro I paid 300 bucks alone on the head unit, and it was a midrange Alpine.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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