"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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alright, not a big concern for me, but want advice

Little Italy

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alright so i told this girl i was from italy and i spoke three languages, and it kinda got taken out of hands lmao, and now i kinda don't know what to do, shes not high on my priority list and we share no common friends, we've hung out a few times and i kinda just did that because my bro didn't believe i would do it and now i'm gonna be chillin with my friends tomorrow at a place and she's gonna be there, any ideas as in what i should do? i'm not trying to cover it up, but does anyone have any ideas? haha i feel like an ass... think i should just tell her or just roll with it? dumb move by me i know.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Little Italy said:
alright so i told this girl i was from italy and i spoke three languages, and it kinda got taken out of hands lmao, and now i kinda don't know what to do, shes not high on my priority list and we share no common friends, we've hung out a few times and i kinda just did that because my bro didn't believe i would do it and now i'm gonna be chillin with my friends tomorrow at a place and she's gonna be there, any ideas as in what i should do? i'm not trying to cover it up, but does anyone have any ideas? haha i feel like an ass... think i should just tell her or just roll with it? dumb move by me i know.
dude i've been there. I would definitely tell her, just laugh it off like the joke that it was. She'll forget about it soon
 

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haha thats what i was planning to do, either that or avoid her lmao, idk she seems like she'd freak out though, then again whats the worst that can happen
 
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