"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alright i need to end this stupid game with girls.

LostAndConfused

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You know what game I'm talking about.

this usually happens after I hook up with a girl (by hook up I mean make out), but it also happens to girls I flirt with a little.

They just stop flirting back or they stop talking to me.

then when i back off and focus my attention elsewhere its like they clamor to get into my attention.

It's not like I'm desparate in the first place, its not like I'm calling too often, but I still get caught up in this sh1t.

this just happened to me TWICE at the same time this month. One with this girl that I went out on a movie date with and i hooked up with her in her car, and two with this really attractive girl I was gaming that week. I gave up on the latter girl and she started trying to talk to me again.

any tips?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rex Man

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Start fu<king them. You will then automatically have the upper-hand.
 
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