"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alright i need to end this stupid game with girls.

LostAndConfused

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You know what game I'm talking about.

this usually happens after I hook up with a girl (by hook up I mean make out), but it also happens to girls I flirt with a little.

They just stop flirting back or they stop talking to me.

then when i back off and focus my attention elsewhere its like they clamor to get into my attention.

It's not like I'm desparate in the first place, its not like I'm calling too often, but I still get caught up in this sh1t.

this just happened to me TWICE at the same time this month. One with this girl that I went out on a movie date with and i hooked up with her in her car, and two with this really attractive girl I was gaming that week. I gave up on the latter girl and she started trying to talk to me again.

any tips?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Rex Man

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Start fu<king them. You will then automatically have the upper-hand.
 
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