“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Alright guys, time for me to try nofap myself

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I prolly shouldn’t even make a thread on it, but hey when I eventually leave this place and come back like a million years later, I would like to see some of the progress I’ve made so **** it. I guess yesterday was the first day, but today is probably gonna really count just because now it’s logged on here and y’all are gonna give me **** for it if I break it so yeah. That’s also why I’m making a thread on it. Because you guys can kinda hold me accountable for it somewhat even though I doubt I’d actually give af but you know. Let’s see what happens. Wish me luck fellas.
 

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Lol, I've never gotten the point of this...theoretically if you are not on anything(TRT, steroids, etc) your Testosterone will rise for 7 days at which point it will start dropping again...the body is exceptionally good at not wasting resources and often times can be looked at as being lazy.

It figures if you are not going to make use of the extra T for anything it will just let it drop back off again. There are stories about athletes who use this to their advantage by not having sex for several days before a fight or match to capture this natural boost.

For those on steroids or TRT there is no ebb and flow like this so it is kind of irrelevant.
 

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Supposedly there are pheromones associated with having all that baby batter ready to unload as well. No idea how true that is as I'm pretty sure I never read a proper study on it.

I've never strictly adhered to no fap, but I do consciously avoid it at times just to exert control over my sexual desires. It's good to have control over the little brain. It's easier if you're having sex a couple of times a week.
 

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Lol, I've never gotten the point of this...theoretically if you are not on anything(TRT, steroids, etc) your Testosterone will rise for 7 days at which point it will start dropping again...the body is exceptionally good at not wasting resources and often times can be looked at as being lazy.

It figures if you are not going to make use of the extra T for anything it will just let it drop back off again. There are stories about athletes who use this to their advantage by not having sex for several days before a fight or match to capture this natural boost.

For those on steroids or TRT there is no ebb and flow like this so it is kind of irrelevant.
It’s not about test levels. I can raise that at will by now. It’s more so about forcing myself to use self control really. And kinda just because it’s a time waster. This way I can do something more productive instead of wasting time, particularly sleep. I guess I’m subconsciously getting myself in the habit for what is to come. After the summer is over, my schedule is gonna be fully booked so I’m not gonna have time to really focus on anything else and will need all the time to focus that I can get.
Supposedly there are pheromones associated with having all that baby batter ready to unload as well. No idea how true that is as I'm pretty sure I never read a proper study on it.

I've never strictly adhered to no fap, but I do consciously avoid it at times just to exert control over my sexual desires. It's good to have control over the little brain. It's easier if you're having sex a couple of times a week.
Yeah I’ve actually heard some pretty crazy stories to be honest about this type of stuff. It’s pretty much all anecdotal but it happens way too often for it to be overlooked so that’s another reason. Just kinda giving it a shot. I know I have the self control not to do it. I could probably get addicted to crack or heroin and get off of it if I really felt the need to (not that I ever would, but it’s just a testament to my willpower when I become obsessive about something). It’s just one of those things where it’s like ‘eh I can do it, I don’t have anything to lose, so why not?’ I figured I might as well. Let’s jsut see what happens. I remember deesade saying it was complete bull**** until he gave it a shot himself, then said he felt like he was on cocaine after a while lol
 

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Supposedly there are pheromones associated with having all that baby batter ready to unload as well. No idea how true that is as I'm pretty sure I never read a proper study on it.

I've never strictly adhered to no fap, but I do consciously avoid it at times just to exert control over my sexual desires. It's good to have control over the little brain. It's easier if you're having sex a couple of times a week.
Not pheromones. Testosterone. And yes women can "smell" testosterone...they have receptors for it in their noses
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Not pheromones. Testosterone. And yes women can "smell" testosterone...they have receptors for it in their noses
Can you provide a link on that because as far as I know, testosterone is not a pheromone. They're both hormones, but pheromones are secreted. You don't secrete testosterone, but it produces or triggers the release of pheromones, hence the link between high t and attractive scent. As for receptors in their nose, never heard that before. I'd be curious to read the literature.
 

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I’m not particularly interested in what masturbation does or doesn’t do to testosterone.

@ImTheDoubleGreatest! , if you intend to abstain from masturbation for the sake of self-control and productivity, I would recommend trying to set ambitious goals that would make masturbation incongruent with achieving them. For example, I am seeking to achieve straight A+’s at university this summer semester despite a tedious courseload and working full time. I am not extraordinarily intelligent so I have to rely on my work ethic to achieve great grades. The cumulative time spent on masturbation and/or porn would drastically affect my productivity and ultimately my grades. Because my academic goals are more important than instant sexual gratification, it is easier to resist the impulse to masturbate. I notice I experience less brain fog and an increased ability to concentrate with sustained attention after 2 days of no masturbation. In my situation, I cannot afford to allocate time here and there to masturbation, over a 4-month span it adds up to a lot of time flushed down the drain that could have been spent on productivity.

I’ll also add that, in my experience, I masturbate the most when I am avoiding responsibility (procrastinating on beginning or finishing a task) or trying to subconsciously deal with undesirable mental states, such as mild stress or frustration, or simply just boredom.

Important thing to remember is the urge to masturbate is generally impulsive, but always temporary, and so it will subside within a few minutes if you don’t give in.

Last thing I’ll say is: don’t underestimate dopamine. It’s a powerful chemical, and completely abstaining long-term from porn or masturbation cold turkey is very difficult. As someone who was once addicted to cocaine and OxyContin, I find masturbation and/or porn harder to abstain from; imagine being a heroin addict having a loaded syringe in your pocket ready to use 24/7.

I’m not against masturbation in moderation, but in my personal experience, I prefer how I feel after going without it for a sustained length of time than I do doing it regularly.

I hope you can benefit from your experiment @ImTheDoubleGreatest!
 

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Can you provide a link on that because as far as I know, testosterone is not a pheromone. They're both hormones, but pheromones are secreted. You don't secrete testosterone, but it produces or triggers the release of pheromones, hence the link between high t and attractive scent. As for receptors in their nose, never heard that before. I'd be curious to read the literature.
It’s not that. Sometimes marmel speaks broscience or something he just thinks is true because of some small article he read once upon a time and got it mixed up with another. It’s more so the mindset that having high test gives you. You just exhibit strong behavior, and women can sense that. It’s basically the ‘vibe’ you give off. You’re able to sense it from others (just not very consciously). Women in particular are more receptive to it than men are. It’s not pheromones. It’s just the ‘energy’ you give off I guess.
 

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But I’ve read (((several articles))) that it’s healthy to fap a lot
If I must masturbate, it's done end of week day before work starts again. Work cures the bad effects of masturbating. By the end of week and mid-week even, women notice that I'm loaded. It's a subconscious sensory aura. Your brain works snappier, your body flows more fluid. You're more co-ordinated (not drunk from sins of the flesh - your load should be going in a woman), more able to be aggressive and ride the bull, yanked around and wild buck. She sees your rocks. She wants you to be giddy up. Sure fatter women like to be fvcked harder like bent over a bed where you get maximum leverage slamin her. Smaller girls you kinda gotta gauge her acceptance to the rough stuff. She's milkin a Bull, a hopes for a bucket full.
 

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If I fap, I could care less about women or sex for about two days afterwards.

Sometimes I crave p0rn more than women cause women make it so difficult some times with their annoying sh*t. I know the SS mantra is to avoid p0rn at all costs. But I’ve read several articles that it’s healthy to fap a lot
Don't read those . There's a bunch of shyt going down to degrade masculinity .
 

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If I must masturbate, it's done end of week day before work starts again. Work cures the bad effects of masturbating. By the end of week and mid-week even, women notice that I'm loaded. It's a subconscious sensory aura. Your brain works snappier, your body flows more fluid. You're more co-ordinated (not drunk from sins of the flesh - your load should be going in a woman), more able to be aggressive and ride the bull, yanked around and wild buck. She sees your rocks. She wants you to be giddy up. Sure fatter women like to be fvcked harder like bent over a bed where you get maximum leverage slamin her. Smaller girls you kinda gotta gauge her acceptance to the rough stuff. She's milkin a Bull, a hopes for a bucket full.
I did read that women are able to understand smells better than men. Not sure if that includes testosterone, but who really knows. It's also a fact that more ejaculation when you are younger can help reduce the possibility of getting prostate cancer. It's also a fact that the body re-absorbs any semen that is not used. Thus, clearing the tubes out once a week is not a bad idea if a man is in a rut or not fvcking any women.

If you want to increase your volume, that is pretty easy. Take a zinc supplement (about 30MG daily) and you'll be shooting like a porn star. If you want make your ejaculate taste better to women, also pretty easy. Just drink pineapple or lemon juice on a daily basis. I take the following regimen daily:

2 tablespoons of raw organic apple cider vinegar
a couple of splashes of some organic lemon juice (pure, not concentrate)
A tablespoon wheat grass (Amazon)

Add a cup of water and you'll be all good. You're welcome.
 

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IMHO if a DJ is masterbating it means his sex life is not being taken care of .
I gotta disagree with this.

I have posted before how whenever I have sex I give my all into pleasing the woman so she will want to return again, again, again, again, and again. I work really hard at pleasing her too. And some days I just don't want to put in that effort. I just wanna get myself off and be done. So I will pick a quick fap over texting/calling a chick, picking a time to meet, travel, etc. I live in a rural area so from the time I decide I want some mud for my duck to the time the duck gets to swim it's gonna be minimum 45 minutes and that's super extreme, probably gonna be more like 2 hours. I can be done fapping and way into doing something else by then.

I have also posted before how I fap sometimes to build stamina. I will fap 3-8 hours before a date cuz by the time I get with the chick and we hit the sheets I'm ready to go again and gonna last much longer, keep her O zone a flowin', and secure my next lay.
 

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I gotta disagree with this.

I have posted before how whenever I have sex I give my all into pleasing the woman so she will want to return again, again, again, again, and again. I work really hard at pleasing her too. And some days I just don't want to put in that effort. I just wanna get myself off and be done. So I will pick a quick fap over texting/calling a chick, picking a time to meet, travel, etc. I live in a rural area so from the time I decide I want some mud for my duck to the time the duck gets to swim it's gonna be minimum 45 minutes and that's super extreme, probably gonna be more like 2 hours. I can be done fapping and way into doing something else by then.

I have also posted before how I fap sometimes to build stamina. I will fap 3-8 hours before a date cuz by the time I get with the chick and we hit the sheets I'm ready to go again and gonna last much longer, keep her O zone a flowin', and secure my next lay.
Wise words/techniques of an experienced man.

@ImTheDoubleGreatest! What's ur true purpose of abstaining?

It's possible but it's also against ur very nature and thus it's not sustainable nor practical.

My advice; do everything in moderation and find that balance which suits you best.
 

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IMHO if a DJ is masterbating it means his sex life is not being taken care of .
I would think this too, but after this last bout of abstinence over the holidays I noticed, when I started fvcking again that I was horny AF 24/7. The more sex I have, the more I have the urge to relieve it. It just feels like my Test is ramped up constantly overall, when I'm having sex regularly.
 
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