"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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already over?

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So this girl in my physics class i like. She definitely showed some IOIs. Hugged me and stuff, not in a friendly way though. She seemed like she really liked me. We chilled a few times 3 weeks ago. I never found the right time to kiss her. So about 2 weeks ago. She starts talking to me less. And less! Now we barely talk! Is it over? Like i'd start a conversation etc and she'd just go along with it but never say a lot. What do i do?
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Keep not doing anything and it will be over.
She wanted you, you didn't show that you wanted her. It's likely you didn't kino that well and so forth. Now she's losing interest.

I've seen this happen - it's a girl not wanting to put you in the friend zone. At the same time, you're not doing well in her fcuk zone, so she simply does 'nothing' with you cause you are in lingo. You're pretty much a chump to her who has no ability to get physical and intimate with a girl you like.
Quickly get yourself back in the game.
Weird, huh?
 
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dude im havin this same problem with one of the girls i was talkin 2...it seeemed she was so into me as well, but it seems as if late she doesnt giv a fvck anymore
 
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anything in mind? I think i might just go up to her be like "what's your deal? How come you dont talk to me as much anymore?"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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keeprolling said:
anything in mind? I think i might just go up to her be like "what's your deal? How come you dont talk to me as much anymore?"
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HELL NO. Huge AFC move right there. Start talking to her again, but make it seem natural.
 
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ok common problem...you realize a girl is starting to become interested in you..and for some reason you wait a little before deciding to take action or taking action never even comes to mind. For me, i usualy have trouble deciding which girl to game first..but that's over and you konw what helped me

CONFIDENCE. Most people with this problem are waiting for the girl to make the move. "She seems interested, but lately she seems not to give a ****" WELL **** HER GIVING A ****, YOU TELL HER YOU GIVE A ****. go up to her and tell her she should hang with you this weekend. WHAT THE **** COULD ****ING HAPPEN...you'll love yourself even more after you do it. I GUARANTEE. even if she says no. YOU'LL ****ING LOVE YOURSELF. because you have gotten closer to becoming an ALPHA. you are taking the lead and making your life better. you aren't waiting for someone or something to tell you, it's time to amke the move. anytime is the right time for you.

If she asks, "why don't you talk to me anymore?"
Tell her, "Then let's hang this weekend and we can talk all you want."

You'll walk away after she gives you her number thinking, DAMN I'M A ****ING DJ. SO DAMN SEXY AND SMOOTH. I'M ****ING JAMES BOND. YOU'LL ****ING GO DUNNA DUN DUNNA DUNNNN DUN DUN DUN. OH GIGIGIGIGIGIGIGITY AND PELVIC THRUST AND DO DOGGY STYLE AS YOU STROLL AWAY.

maybe not that far. but you'll be happy.
"The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation. " Henry David Thoreau
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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