"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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already over?

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So this girl in my physics class i like. She definitely showed some IOIs. Hugged me and stuff, not in a friendly way though. She seemed like she really liked me. We chilled a few times 3 weeks ago. I never found the right time to kiss her. So about 2 weeks ago. She starts talking to me less. And less! Now we barely talk! Is it over? Like i'd start a conversation etc and she'd just go along with it but never say a lot. What do i do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Keep not doing anything and it will be over.
She wanted you, you didn't show that you wanted her. It's likely you didn't kino that well and so forth. Now she's losing interest.

I've seen this happen - it's a girl not wanting to put you in the friend zone. At the same time, you're not doing well in her fcuk zone, so she simply does 'nothing' with you cause you are in lingo. You're pretty much a chump to her who has no ability to get physical and intimate with a girl you like.
Quickly get yourself back in the game.
Weird, huh?
 
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dude im havin this same problem with one of the girls i was talkin 2...it seeemed she was so into me as well, but it seems as if late she doesnt giv a fvck anymore
 
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anything in mind? I think i might just go up to her be like "what's your deal? How come you dont talk to me as much anymore?"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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keeprolling said:
anything in mind? I think i might just go up to her be like "what's your deal? How come you dont talk to me as much anymore?"
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HELL NO. Huge AFC move right there. Start talking to her again, but make it seem natural.
 
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ok common problem...you realize a girl is starting to become interested in you..and for some reason you wait a little before deciding to take action or taking action never even comes to mind. For me, i usualy have trouble deciding which girl to game first..but that's over and you konw what helped me

CONFIDENCE. Most people with this problem are waiting for the girl to make the move. "She seems interested, but lately she seems not to give a ****" WELL **** HER GIVING A ****, YOU TELL HER YOU GIVE A ****. go up to her and tell her she should hang with you this weekend. WHAT THE **** COULD ****ING HAPPEN...you'll love yourself even more after you do it. I GUARANTEE. even if she says no. YOU'LL ****ING LOVE YOURSELF. because you have gotten closer to becoming an ALPHA. you are taking the lead and making your life better. you aren't waiting for someone or something to tell you, it's time to amke the move. anytime is the right time for you.

If she asks, "why don't you talk to me anymore?"
Tell her, "Then let's hang this weekend and we can talk all you want."

You'll walk away after she gives you her number thinking, DAMN I'M A ****ING DJ. SO DAMN SEXY AND SMOOTH. I'M ****ING JAMES BOND. YOU'LL ****ING GO DUNNA DUN DUNNA DUNNNN DUN DUN DUN. OH GIGIGIGIGIGIGIGITY AND PELVIC THRUST AND DO DOGGY STYLE AS YOU STROLL AWAY.

maybe not that far. but you'll be happy.
"The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation. " Henry David Thoreau
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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