"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Raphael

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Alpha means to originate.

Yet if we are the effect of sexual desire, or the effect of other peoples ideas about what constitutes proving ourselves as men, then are we alpha, or beta?

To be at cause over desire, and at cause over approval, is the mark of the true male, which paradoxically does lead to an increased level of success.

Then it is seen that one always was the alpha male, either successfully leading the way, or failing and imposing that failure upon the world around us.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sean O

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Raphael said:
Alpha means to originate.

Yet if we are the effect of sexual desire, or the effect of other peoples ideas about what constitutes proving ourselves as men, then are we alpha, or beta?

To be at cause over desire, and at cause over approval, is the mark of the true male, which paradoxically does lead to an increased level of success.

Then it is seen that one always was the alpha male, either successfully leading the way, or failing and imposing that failure upon the world around us.
...Are you TRYING to confuse the hell out of the rAFCs on this site?

Guys, being alpha is just about being strong and confident, being a leader, and being able to take charge when you need to. It has nothing to do with... whatever this nonsense Raphael just posted is (nothing personal, Raphael).
 

BigOlePappy

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Sean O said:
...Are you TRYING to confuse the hell out of the rAFCs on this site?

Guys, being alpha is just about being strong and confident, being a leader, and being able to take charge when you need to. It has nothing to do with... whatever this nonsense Raphael just posted is (nothing personal, Raphael).
funniest response ever
 
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