"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ALPHA Walking in the Corridor

DogFashionDisco

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omfg, will you bastards stop overanalysing everything you do? I mean what's next? "The ALPHA way to eat your food at lunch"


Seriously, who the **** cares how you walk? Most people don't care about how anyone walks down a hall. They're to busy getting to their next class or talking to friends or worrying about their acne or something. Do you honestly think it's gonna have an affect on women, or other guys? HELL NO.

I swear it keeps getting worse and worse.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AlexTheGreat

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it has an effect. Just not a direct one. It's a perceived effect that people don't realize, but still feel. As with a bad posture giving away a lack of confidence, a bad walk shows weakness. Hence, an Alpha-type of walk is important because it shows subconsciously that you are confident and powerful. Women won't flock to you because of it, but they WILL notice you from the crowd of crouched hunchbacks walking around.


DogFashionDisco said:
I swear it keeps getting worse and worse.
Well, tell me then, if it's gotten so bad, what are you still doing here ? Don't like ? Don't stay. Either try to make it better by DOING something, or stfu and spank your e-monkey elsewhere
 

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Girls can actually tell who is the most alpha in the room through the way you carry yourself, facial expression, voice tonality, as well as who you speak to. A fellow poster here once suggested that they can even sense testosterone levels, which may actually be true.

To each their own, really. Beta males/jerks have that weird hip-hop walk that attract the beta females while the non-Juans have their twitchy hand movements and low self-esteem.
 

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My thoughts:

A branch not flexible enough will snap when a monkey lands on it. The monkey falls down.

A branch too flexible will bend too low when the monkey lands on it. The monkey falls down.

Either way, the monkey learns its mistake and avoids such branches.

Imaging you're the branch and the girl is the monkey. If the girl sees you as too stubborn, it's a turn off. If you're too much of a nice guy, it's a turn off. Either way, she'll learn to avoid you, just like the monkey learns to avoid supple and stubborn branches.

"ALPHA WALKING" (lol) isn't off limits, but make sure you don't take it too far.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DogFashionDisco said:
Seriously, who the **** cares how you walk? Most people don't care about how anyone walks down a hall.

Do you honestly think it's gonna have an affect on women, or other guys? HELL NO.

I swear it keeps getting worse and worse.

lol if i never knew about seduction and read about body language I would say the samething. Many times people have commented on the way I walk and sit. Don't ask me why they ask it but the first time I actually realize someone noticed was when they asked me "How come you walk like them guys from the wild wild west." an after seeing many people move out my way and many girls pickup on my body language I became convinced. At first sight who you think the girl would talk too first the same guy if he was taking up a full seat on a bus or the same guy all bunched up hoping he doesn't take up too much space and that his legs don't touch the person next to him.
 

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Distant Light said:
lol if i never knew about seduction and read about body language I would say the samething. Many times people have commented on the way I walk and sit. Don't ask me why they ask it but the first time I actually realize someone noticed was when they asked me "How come you walk like them guys from the wild wild west." an after seeing many people move out my way and many girls pickup on my body language I became convinced. At first sight who you think the girl would talk too first the same guy if he was taking up a full seat on a bus or the same guy all bunched up hoping he doesn't take up too much space and that his legs don't touch the person next to him.
They walk out of the way and ask you because you look like a creepy idiot.
 
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