"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ALPHA Walking in the Corridor

DogFashionDisco

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omfg, will you bastards stop overanalysing everything you do? I mean what's next? "The ALPHA way to eat your food at lunch"


Seriously, who the **** cares how you walk? Most people don't care about how anyone walks down a hall. They're to busy getting to their next class or talking to friends or worrying about their acne or something. Do you honestly think it's gonna have an affect on women, or other guys? HELL NO.

I swear it keeps getting worse and worse.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AlexTheGreat

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it has an effect. Just not a direct one. It's a perceived effect that people don't realize, but still feel. As with a bad posture giving away a lack of confidence, a bad walk shows weakness. Hence, an Alpha-type of walk is important because it shows subconsciously that you are confident and powerful. Women won't flock to you because of it, but they WILL notice you from the crowd of crouched hunchbacks walking around.


DogFashionDisco said:
I swear it keeps getting worse and worse.
Well, tell me then, if it's gotten so bad, what are you still doing here ? Don't like ? Don't stay. Either try to make it better by DOING something, or stfu and spank your e-monkey elsewhere
 

GuitarOnFire

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Girls can actually tell who is the most alpha in the room through the way you carry yourself, facial expression, voice tonality, as well as who you speak to. A fellow poster here once suggested that they can even sense testosterone levels, which may actually be true.

To each their own, really. Beta males/jerks have that weird hip-hop walk that attract the beta females while the non-Juans have their twitchy hand movements and low self-esteem.
 

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My thoughts:

A branch not flexible enough will snap when a monkey lands on it. The monkey falls down.

A branch too flexible will bend too low when the monkey lands on it. The monkey falls down.

Either way, the monkey learns its mistake and avoids such branches.

Imaging you're the branch and the girl is the monkey. If the girl sees you as too stubborn, it's a turn off. If you're too much of a nice guy, it's a turn off. Either way, she'll learn to avoid you, just like the monkey learns to avoid supple and stubborn branches.

"ALPHA WALKING" (lol) isn't off limits, but make sure you don't take it too far.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Distant Light

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DogFashionDisco said:
Seriously, who the **** cares how you walk? Most people don't care about how anyone walks down a hall.

Do you honestly think it's gonna have an affect on women, or other guys? HELL NO.

I swear it keeps getting worse and worse.

lol if i never knew about seduction and read about body language I would say the samething. Many times people have commented on the way I walk and sit. Don't ask me why they ask it but the first time I actually realize someone noticed was when they asked me "How come you walk like them guys from the wild wild west." an after seeing many people move out my way and many girls pickup on my body language I became convinced. At first sight who you think the girl would talk too first the same guy if he was taking up a full seat on a bus or the same guy all bunched up hoping he doesn't take up too much space and that his legs don't touch the person next to him.
 

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Distant Light said:
lol if i never knew about seduction and read about body language I would say the samething. Many times people have commented on the way I walk and sit. Don't ask me why they ask it but the first time I actually realize someone noticed was when they asked me "How come you walk like them guys from the wild wild west." an after seeing many people move out my way and many girls pickup on my body language I became convinced. At first sight who you think the girl would talk too first the same guy if he was taking up a full seat on a bus or the same guy all bunched up hoping he doesn't take up too much space and that his legs don't touch the person next to him.
They walk out of the way and ask you because you look like a creepy idiot.
 
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