"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How many self proclaimed sosuave alphas are REALLY White Knights under their protective cover?

I've seen more than a few threads from members who love to sport their Alpha armor on sosuave yet inside are White Knight as fawk (and display it in threads shortly after.)

Ex: Poster claims he's alpha..then makes thread complaining about BPD chick he can't resist. WK goes after BPD for the best sex ever yet doesn't put the poozy on a pedestal. LOL!

No Contact thread: Posters claim Alpha and no giving a fawk yet break NC and are right back at square one reinitiating it or even going back to the woman who caused them problems in the first place because they aren't a white knight of course..smdh.

There are numerous examples of this type of behavior all over SS. :yes:

Alpha protective Armor on the outside...White knight as a mofo on the inside. It's LULZY!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yes, but if you were a true Alpha, OP, you wouldn't need to start a new thread just to pick on other posters. So take a look at yourself first :)
 
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What is in the dark will eventually come into the light.
You know what, thank for starting this post. I think Ive been this way for a long time. Its like lying to yourself. This post really hit home with me. I will use this clarification to better myself. Accept, adapt and overcome. Thank you op.
 
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BeginningDJ said:
Are you suggesting the OP to come out of the closet?
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What I really ment is, even if this is some 30 year old chubby girl trying to be a troll and hurt dudes egos, it will only make many more refined. Its either a red pill alpha that is a ****, a 30 year old or plus fatty woman, or a gay guy.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Many people come to this forum in search of self-improvement. Of course there will be guys here with white knight/AFC tendencies. If everyone on this board was an alpha, there would be no need for it.Instead of shaming other posters for not being "alpha", help them deal with their AFC tendencies by offering constructive advice. This is what SoSuave is all about.
 
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