"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alpha protective Armor on the outside White Knight inside

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How many self proclaimed sosuave alphas are REALLY White Knights under their protective cover?

I've seen more than a few threads from members who love to sport their Alpha armor on sosuave yet inside are White Knight as fawk (and display it in threads shortly after.)

Ex: Poster claims he's alpha..then makes thread complaining about BPD chick he can't resist. WK goes after BPD for the best sex ever yet doesn't put the poozy on a pedestal. LOL!

No Contact thread: Posters claim Alpha and no giving a fawk yet break NC and are right back at square one reinitiating it or even going back to the woman who caused them problems in the first place because they aren't a white knight of course..smdh.

There are numerous examples of this type of behavior all over SS. :yes:

Alpha protective Armor on the outside...White knight as a mofo on the inside. It's LULZY!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yes, but if you were a true Alpha, OP, you wouldn't need to start a new thread just to pick on other posters. So take a look at yourself first :)
 

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What is in the dark will eventually come into the light.
You know what, thank for starting this post. I think Ive been this way for a long time. Its like lying to yourself. This post really hit home with me. I will use this clarification to better myself. Accept, adapt and overcome. Thank you op.
 

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BeginningDJ said:
Are you suggesting the OP to come out of the closet?
What I really ment is, even if this is some 30 year old chubby girl trying to be a troll and hurt dudes egos, it will only make many more refined. Its either a red pill alpha that is a ****, a 30 year old or plus fatty woman, or a gay guy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Many people come to this forum in search of self-improvement. Of course there will be guys here with white knight/AFC tendencies. If everyone on this board was an alpha, there would be no need for it.Instead of shaming other posters for not being "alpha", help them deal with their AFC tendencies by offering constructive advice. This is what SoSuave is all about.
 
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