Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Alpha Mentality is attracting the Uglies!

HandyAndy

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Today my friend (whom is into pickup as well, were like mini versions of wing men) was talking to a friend of his (this girls friend is really into me) and she kept asking about me (IOI)

"whos your friend?"
"he looks cool"

Stuff like that, another interested girl as well, this time shes actually pretty.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Effington

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Being obnoxiously cruel to women you're not interested in is not cool, man. Karma will come back to bite you on that one, like if you find out one of them has a hot cousin. Make friends with everyone, because you never know who they know...or who they may meet in the future. Never burn bridges if you don't have to.

Also note, I can't count how many girls I ignored in high school because they were ugly and now (7 years out of high school) I see them and they're gorgeous. The quiet/shy girl who was kind of chubby in our class is now a talk show host in LA somewhere.

As for the most recent posts...you may have to smack your best friend's girl. Innocent flirting is fun, but don't let that cross a line. She may actually like you more for it, but it's your buddy's girl, that's a man law.
 

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I know, I wouldnt ever say something that disrespectful to a woman or anyone I find unattractive. I will keep them to meet their hot friends though. I just want to start talking to the interested girls first, thats my problem
 
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