"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Alpha Mentality is attracting the Uglies!

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HandyAndy

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Today my friend (whom is into pickup as well, were like mini versions of wing men) was talking to a friend of his (this girls friend is really into me) and she kept asking about me (IOI)

"whos your friend?"
"he looks cool"

Stuff like that, another interested girl as well, this time shes actually pretty.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Being obnoxiously cruel to women you're not interested in is not cool, man. Karma will come back to bite you on that one, like if you find out one of them has a hot cousin. Make friends with everyone, because you never know who they know...or who they may meet in the future. Never burn bridges if you don't have to.

Also note, I can't count how many girls I ignored in high school because they were ugly and now (7 years out of high school) I see them and they're gorgeous. The quiet/shy girl who was kind of chubby in our class is now a talk show host in LA somewhere.

As for the most recent posts...you may have to smack your best friend's girl. Innocent flirting is fun, but don't let that cross a line. She may actually like you more for it, but it's your buddy's girl, that's a man law.
 
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I know, I wouldnt ever say something that disrespectful to a woman or anyone I find unattractive. I will keep them to meet their hot friends though. I just want to start talking to the interested girls first, thats my problem
 
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