"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alpha Mentality is attracting the Uglies!

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HandyAndy

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Today my friend (whom is into pickup as well, were like mini versions of wing men) was talking to a friend of his (this girls friend is really into me) and she kept asking about me (IOI)

"whos your friend?"
"he looks cool"

Stuff like that, another interested girl as well, this time shes actually pretty.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Being obnoxiously cruel to women you're not interested in is not cool, man. Karma will come back to bite you on that one, like if you find out one of them has a hot cousin. Make friends with everyone, because you never know who they know...or who they may meet in the future. Never burn bridges if you don't have to.

Also note, I can't count how many girls I ignored in high school because they were ugly and now (7 years out of high school) I see them and they're gorgeous. The quiet/shy girl who was kind of chubby in our class is now a talk show host in LA somewhere.

As for the most recent posts...you may have to smack your best friend's girl. Innocent flirting is fun, but don't let that cross a line. She may actually like you more for it, but it's your buddy's girl, that's a man law.
 
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I know, I wouldnt ever say something that disrespectful to a woman or anyone I find unattractive. I will keep them to meet their hot friends though. I just want to start talking to the interested girls first, thats my problem
 
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