assassin
Don Juan
Anyone have any tips on how to prove your self as the alpha male against another alpha male? Thanks to anyone who replys.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Well for one, stop acting like you have to prove yourself, because that's beta to the max.
kave
Don Juan
Just act as if the other guy isnt there and like metalfortress said u dont need to prove yourself to ANYONE.
Metal is right.
You beta yourself the second you have something to prove.
I don't know if the bible includes this, but read up on "AMOG" destroying.
There are various techniques to destroy an AMOG's alphaness.
You can use destroyers such as:
- I LOVE YoU MAN (put your hand on his shoulder)
- Wow man i love ur shirt its soo cool
- Teach him a trick, or do a trick on him
You could alos just ignore him and be ur cool self.
You beta yourself the second you have something to prove.
I don't know if the bible includes this, but read up on "AMOG" destroying.
There are various techniques to destroy an AMOG's alphaness.
You can use destroyers such as:
- I LOVE YoU MAN (put your hand on his shoulder)
- Wow man i love ur shirt its soo cool
- Teach him a trick, or do a trick on him
You could alos just ignore him and be ur cool self.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Wonderbread166
Senior Don Juan
Beta... don't you mean Omega, or am I missing something?
Best friends? NAY
Senior Don Juan
Take you and 320492390482378 of your friends and go beat him up?
REALLY, how do you know you'r Alpha, how do you know the other guy is alpha, how does anyone know? Their isn't a commite that decides this and gives you a sticker that says "Alpha" on it to put on your shirt.
Don't try to be better just to beat the next guy, you'll get burned that way.
REALLY, how do you know you'r Alpha, how do you know the other guy is alpha, how does anyone know? Their isn't a commite that decides this and gives you a sticker that says "Alpha" on it to put on your shirt.
Don't try to be better just to beat the next guy, you'll get burned that way.