“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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fuko2007

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What makes you an alpha male? Not sports but extreme things.
The type of stuff most normal guys are to big of a ***** to even think about much less do. I hope by posting these things we can help some BETA ****s get their stuff in order.

I skydive for fun..a.k.a jump out of a plane at 14000 feet just for ****s and gigs.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I thought that reading SoSuave made you an alpha male :rolleyes:
 

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Interesting topic - although no disrespect to you, I know some beta pu$$ies who've been skydiving. I did a skydive back when I was a true AFC. Same with things like martial arts, shooting etc... These are activities anyone can do really, because of the safe environment they take place in. Betas are all over the gym, soccer field, etc.

Is there a truly inherent "Alpha male extracurricular activity" other than just doing what makes him happy, and doing it well?

I think excelling in a chosen area is pretty alpha - I for instance love playing drums, and whilst anyone can sit down and drum, I blow 99/100 drummers out of the water because I practise properly and dedicate myself to my craft.
 

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Yep...not what you do but how you do it and dedicate yourself to it....i do Longfist Kungfu and it is very time consuming and difficult to get good at..it would be so easy to slack off and just do it halfway or just to up and quit...but i want to be the best at it or at the very least become what i can call good...and i love it so i practice religiously...
 

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Beta afc's do tandem jumps not solo...next on the list is getting a wingsuit youtube that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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rhythmic said:
Interesting topic - although no disrespect to you, I know some beta pu$$ies who've been skydiving. I did a skydive back when I was a true AFC.
I've never been skydiving. But back when I was a young lad and a true AFC, one of the things I considered to impress a girl was taking her skydiving. I wanted to impress her so badly that I could be an exciting guy, I came up with this over the top idea. Which was pretty AFC in itself.

This girl was so hot that almost every guy she came into contact with hit on her. I figured if I actually took her skydiving, the instructor and pilot would just be hitting on her heavily. Especially the instructor, plenty of opportunities for kino for him. And these guys actually lived the life I was wanting to impress her with, so that would have cancelled that out. So I decided something less fake would be better.

rhythmic said:
I think excelling in a chosen area is pretty alpha - I for instance love playing drums, and whilst anyone can sit down and drum, I blow 99/100 drummers out of the water because I practise properly and dedicate myself to my craft.
That's a great point. If you can excel at something, demonstrate a high skill level, that is what is truly impressive. If you are the best at doing something, that is literally being an alpha, not just thinking you are.
 

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I fuhk for sport as well as do my own stunts! :) Hopefully that makes me alpha in the eyes of the sosuave elite!
 

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rhythmic said:
Is there a truly inherent "Alpha male extracurricular activity" other than just doing what makes him happy, and doing it well?

I think excelling in a chosen area is pretty alpha - I for instance love playing drums, and whilst anyone can sit down and drum, I blow 99/100 drummers out of the water because I practise properly and dedicate myself to my craft.
^This. Alpha is finding something you're passionate about and working hard to get really good at it. The exception is maybe playing Call of Dooty in your room every day lol.
 

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A true alpha male does not partake in extra-curricular activities. He spends all his time taking over the world and plotting the demise of his enemies.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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making money
 

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I get a bottle of Anbesol and a diabetes syringe. Before sex I inject the Anbesol right into my wang chung from bow to stern, as well as apply some topically. I then put on a very thin, form-fitting condom and I doggystyle the girl until my hamstrings give out. It's a new movement in the sexual underground called Extended Time Penile Marathon Maneuver. It's beyond extreme! You literally become a sex god.

Insider tip: you never tell the girl about it!
 

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Motorcycles- Dangerous
Backpacking- Girls love rugged stuff like this. My cousin goes backpacking in the North all the time by himself. If it's summer he doesn't even use a tent. Alpha as fuk.
Musician- People seem to be worshiping you on stage, huge social circle, free admission to clubs and concerts, etc.
Shooting- Handling of dangerous machinery. Similar to motorcycles. Plus it gives the impression that you can protect her if needed.
MMA- Alpha. Shows that you are tough and can protect her in a fight. Lots of testosterone.


But don't do an activity if you don't like it. Oh, and reading up on game theory and posting constantly on Sosuave doesn't make you an instant alpha male ;)
 

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lol. you know you've internalized all the wrong things from this site when you choose to spend your free time doing things you think will make you alpha in the hopes it will provide you with pvssy.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bath Salts. FTW! :up:
 

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I never bothered with pvssy until I was 26, and had a guy's wife not hit on me, I'd probably still have been cherry at age 30. I was having too much fun competing on the IPSC combat shooting match circuit. Looking back on it, I wish I'd avoided women and stuck with the shooting, until I'd made "my pile" of money. :) I've been "into" projectile weapons of some sort, plus hunting, since I was 8 years old. Got my black belt at age 20. Dunno what to tell ya about all this other (wussy) stuff guys "do" today. Never even considered such things, myself.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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