“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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fuko2007

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What makes you an alpha male? Not sports but extreme things.
The type of stuff most normal guys are to big of a ***** to even think about much less do. I hope by posting these things we can help some BETA ****s get their stuff in order.

I skydive for fun..a.k.a jump out of a plane at 14000 feet just for ****s and gigs.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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zekko

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I thought that reading SoSuave made you an alpha male :rolleyes:
 

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Interesting topic - although no disrespect to you, I know some beta pu$$ies who've been skydiving. I did a skydive back when I was a true AFC. Same with things like martial arts, shooting etc... These are activities anyone can do really, because of the safe environment they take place in. Betas are all over the gym, soccer field, etc.

Is there a truly inherent "Alpha male extracurricular activity" other than just doing what makes him happy, and doing it well?

I think excelling in a chosen area is pretty alpha - I for instance love playing drums, and whilst anyone can sit down and drum, I blow 99/100 drummers out of the water because I practise properly and dedicate myself to my craft.
 

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Yep...not what you do but how you do it and dedicate yourself to it....i do Longfist Kungfu and it is very time consuming and difficult to get good at..it would be so easy to slack off and just do it halfway or just to up and quit...but i want to be the best at it or at the very least become what i can call good...and i love it so i practice religiously...
 

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Beta afc's do tandem jumps not solo...next on the list is getting a wingsuit youtube that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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zekko

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rhythmic said:
Interesting topic - although no disrespect to you, I know some beta pu$$ies who've been skydiving. I did a skydive back when I was a true AFC.
I've never been skydiving. But back when I was a young lad and a true AFC, one of the things I considered to impress a girl was taking her skydiving. I wanted to impress her so badly that I could be an exciting guy, I came up with this over the top idea. Which was pretty AFC in itself.

This girl was so hot that almost every guy she came into contact with hit on her. I figured if I actually took her skydiving, the instructor and pilot would just be hitting on her heavily. Especially the instructor, plenty of opportunities for kino for him. And these guys actually lived the life I was wanting to impress her with, so that would have cancelled that out. So I decided something less fake would be better.

rhythmic said:
I think excelling in a chosen area is pretty alpha - I for instance love playing drums, and whilst anyone can sit down and drum, I blow 99/100 drummers out of the water because I practise properly and dedicate myself to my craft.
That's a great point. If you can excel at something, demonstrate a high skill level, that is what is truly impressive. If you are the best at doing something, that is literally being an alpha, not just thinking you are.
 

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I fuhk for sport as well as do my own stunts! :) Hopefully that makes me alpha in the eyes of the sosuave elite!
 

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rhythmic said:
Is there a truly inherent "Alpha male extracurricular activity" other than just doing what makes him happy, and doing it well?

I think excelling in a chosen area is pretty alpha - I for instance love playing drums, and whilst anyone can sit down and drum, I blow 99/100 drummers out of the water because I practise properly and dedicate myself to my craft.
^This. Alpha is finding something you're passionate about and working hard to get really good at it. The exception is maybe playing Call of Dooty in your room every day lol.
 

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A true alpha male does not partake in extra-curricular activities. He spends all his time taking over the world and plotting the demise of his enemies.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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making money
 

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I get a bottle of Anbesol and a diabetes syringe. Before sex I inject the Anbesol right into my wang chung from bow to stern, as well as apply some topically. I then put on a very thin, form-fitting condom and I doggystyle the girl until my hamstrings give out. It's a new movement in the sexual underground called Extended Time Penile Marathon Maneuver. It's beyond extreme! You literally become a sex god.

Insider tip: you never tell the girl about it!
 

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Motorcycles- Dangerous
Backpacking- Girls love rugged stuff like this. My cousin goes backpacking in the North all the time by himself. If it's summer he doesn't even use a tent. Alpha as fuk.
Musician- People seem to be worshiping you on stage, huge social circle, free admission to clubs and concerts, etc.
Shooting- Handling of dangerous machinery. Similar to motorcycles. Plus it gives the impression that you can protect her if needed.
MMA- Alpha. Shows that you are tough and can protect her in a fight. Lots of testosterone.


But don't do an activity if you don't like it. Oh, and reading up on game theory and posting constantly on Sosuave doesn't make you an instant alpha male ;)
 

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lol. you know you've internalized all the wrong things from this site when you choose to spend your free time doing things you think will make you alpha in the hopes it will provide you with pvssy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bath Salts. FTW! :up:
 

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I never bothered with pvssy until I was 26, and had a guy's wife not hit on me, I'd probably still have been cherry at age 30. I was having too much fun competing on the IPSC combat shooting match circuit. Looking back on it, I wish I'd avoided women and stuck with the shooting, until I'd made "my pile" of money. :) I've been "into" projectile weapons of some sort, plus hunting, since I was 8 years old. Got my black belt at age 20. Dunno what to tell ya about all this other (wussy) stuff guys "do" today. Never even considered such things, myself.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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