"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't listen to this type of music all the time, I love all kinds of music. This though, is what I listen to when I want to get in a really aggressive, confident, testosterone-fueled state of mind, like when I'm working out, for example.

P.S. Led Zeppelin is the greatest band the world has ever seen or will see, and they have their fair share of songs that could be taken as 'alpha.'
 

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I assume by "alpha song" you mean inspiring songs that make you feel more of a "man", or induce a that chemical rush.

If that is the case, I don't think there's a better song than "I'm a Man" by Black Strobe
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hQaUCAcyIzU
(alternatively, watch http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bIZxMjWf1sQ for a shorter version with a nice voice-over)

If you're into rock, I suggest Foo Fighters - "Best of you", or any song from their latest album - say "Walk"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ax6UXyAXSZo

I loved "99 Problems" when I saw the Battlefield 3 trailer:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CihHeHx7zGU

"Civilization" by Justice, if you're into electronic music:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SVq2yMuAMVQ

Imagine Dragons - "Radioactive" If you're into dubstep(ish)-indie rock kind of music.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eu-xFvLaE68
 

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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