"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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War Against Betaism

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Swinggcat's Real World Seduction is the best one out there IMO.
 

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Carlos Xuma Secrets of the Alpha Male
 

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-The Complete *******'s Guide to Handling Chicks.
-I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell.
 

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From a Seduction point of view I suggest these:

Tucker Max - I hope they serve beer in hell

Carlos Xuma - Secrets of the Alpha Man

Dr. Paul Dobransky - King, Warrior, Magician, Lover

Dr. Paul Dobransky - The Secrets of mature masculine power

Michael "Bishop" Emery - Beta into Alpha

And yes, I will say Deangelo's "Deep Inner game" series is worth a look.


For overall growth as a man I suggest these tomes:

Aleister Crowley - Magick in theory and practice

William Barrett - Irrational Man

The art of war - Sun Tzu


These will form the foundation for future growth.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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KontrollerX

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The only book you need is the 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene but you could also pick up Art of Seduction also by him.
 

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KontrollerX said:
The only book you need is the 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene but you could also pick up Art of Seduction also by him.
The Four Agreements. Not about seduction but about being your authentic self and discovering your true inner confidence. It's much more on the "spiritual" side though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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