"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Swinggcat's Real World Seduction is the best one out there IMO.
 

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Carlos Xuma Secrets of the Alpha Male
 

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-The Complete *******'s Guide to Handling Chicks.
-I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell.
 

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From a Seduction point of view I suggest these:

Tucker Max - I hope they serve beer in hell

Carlos Xuma - Secrets of the Alpha Man

Dr. Paul Dobransky - King, Warrior, Magician, Lover

Dr. Paul Dobransky - The Secrets of mature masculine power

Michael "Bishop" Emery - Beta into Alpha

And yes, I will say Deangelo's "Deep Inner game" series is worth a look.


For overall growth as a man I suggest these tomes:

Aleister Crowley - Magick in theory and practice

William Barrett - Irrational Man

The art of war - Sun Tzu


These will form the foundation for future growth.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The only book you need is the 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene but you could also pick up Art of Seduction also by him.
 

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KontrollerX said:
The only book you need is the 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene but you could also pick up Art of Seduction also by him.
The Four Agreements. Not about seduction but about being your authentic self and discovering your true inner confidence. It's much more on the "spiritual" side though.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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