"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alpha Isolation (Jariel where ya at?)

Solomon

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Question for guys who were fat and got aesthetic or skinny
When you guys were going through this metamorphosis did you guys continue to hit the field or solely focus on getting this handled?

The more I results I see (and the lack off) the more i wanna isolate myself and get this handled

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alle_Gory

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Once you've worked hard and reached a goal reward yourself with praise and attention from women. They WILL notice if you're good enough and it's a powerful motivator.
 

Quiksilver

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I certainly put my training and nutrition as a higher priority.

I have never really 'hit the field' though. Ever. If by hitting the field, you mean going out and having a good time, and seizing opportunities as you see them, then I did not stop but as I said ... At the time, my results in the gym and on the track were more important to me than how many number closes I got. Some nights I chose not to head out, or rather was too physically exhausted to want to go out.
 
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