"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alpha Isolation (Jariel where ya at?)

Solomon

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Question for guys who were fat and got aesthetic or skinny
When you guys were going through this metamorphosis did you guys continue to hit the field or solely focus on getting this handled?

The more I results I see (and the lack off) the more i wanna isolate myself and get this handled

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Once you've worked hard and reached a goal reward yourself with praise and attention from women. They WILL notice if you're good enough and it's a powerful motivator.
 

Quiksilver

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I certainly put my training and nutrition as a higher priority.

I have never really 'hit the field' though. Ever. If by hitting the field, you mean going out and having a good time, and seizing opportunities as you see them, then I did not stop but as I said ... At the time, my results in the gym and on the track were more important to me than how many number closes I got. Some nights I chose not to head out, or rather was too physically exhausted to want to go out.
 
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