Aloneness and loneliness

[harkkam08]

I found this great website that delves into the loneliness and sadness we feel from life and that "hole" that we feel inside of us.

http://www.messagefrommasters.com/Spiritual_Quotes/Osho/osho_aloneness_quotes1.htm

It talks about how loneliness is the refusal to accept aloneness.

If you dont enjoy your own company how will others?

 

[J. Darko]

You know, these kind of posts usually come from people that don't know what they are talking about. The kind of people that have lots of friends, loving parents and family, lots of girls and complain that they have to visit yet another birth day party, or they had too *** 10 times in one night because Lola f*cks so good. The kind of people that don't know what it's like to have no parents, no family, no friends, no girls, being alone with Christmas and New Years Eve. They'd better be righting scrips for Disney movies and leave the lifestyle coaching to people who actually know what they are talkking about.

 

[zekko]

I think a lot of this depends on whether you are an introvert or an extrovert (and to what extent). I know a lot of very extroverted people, and they almost seem to experience pain when they are forced to be alone.

When I grew up, I didn't have any other brothers or sisters of the same age to be around. So I ended up spending a lot of time alone, having to entertain myself. As a result of this, I'm very comfortable with solitude, I even find it comforting. It did cause me some difficulties when I got to school age, and I had to improve my social skills. But that's long past.

Even now, if I am forced to be around too many people for too long a time, it makes me irritable. It all depends on your personality.

 

[Rubberpiggy]

You know, these kind of posts usually come from people that don't know what they are talking about. The kind of people that have lots of friends, loving parents and family, lots of girls and complain that they have to visit yet another birth day party, or they had too *** 10 times in one night because Lola f*cks so good. The kind of people that don't know what it's like to have no parents, no family, no friends, no girls, being alone with Christmas and New Years Eve. They'd better be righting scrips for Disney movies and leave the lifestyle coaching to people who actually know what they are talkking about.

christmas sucks: its based on a lie the fraudelent christ

 

[Remy]

lonliness isnt the refusal to accept aloneness because being alone isn't **** man, it's being LONELY that ****ing kills you. You can be alone without being lonely. Alone is when no one's there, Lonely is when YOU FEEL like no one's there. It's a big damn difference. If you learn to love yourself, then I garun-****ing-tee you, you will never be lonely, and you will never be unloved.