"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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almost messed up badly....

.illadelph

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words of advice....try not to talk on aim or any instant messanger service for too long..if u want to tallk, then call her....

anyway, the girl i'm currently digging imed me earlier...and me trying to be slick, played word games...asking really curious questions...sooo stupid..lol

05:15] her: whyd u ask what my mood was?
[05:15] me: why are you so curious?
[05:16] her: hahaha
[05:16] her: well, it was a random question
[05:16] me: psshh, random is what kind of panties are you wearing
[05:16] her: ahahaha
[05:16] me: if any at all
[05:17] her: ahaha
[05:17] her: u were the one who seemed kinda
[05:17] her: not in a great mood haha
[05:18] me: i didn't know u could read emotion behind text
[05:18] her: i can
[05:18] me: that's quite a talent
[05:18] her: i'm talented
[05:18] her: haha
[05:19] me: best things come in smal packages, right?
[05:19] her: haha sometimes!
[05:20] her: i'm really small
[05:20] her: but i'm cool
[05:20] her: HAHAHA jk
[05:23] me: do you feel sexy?
[05:23] her: ahhahaa no
[05:23] me: y not
[05:23] her: nice random questions today
[05:23] her: why are you so curious?
[05:24] me: y is your curiousity directed towards my curiosity towards you?
[05:24] her: because im curious
[05:24] her: :]
[05:25] me: how curious?
[05:25] her: just enough
[05:25] her: haha khoi, you think ur so slick with your word games
[05:25] her: i'm just as slick, buddy
[05:26] me: i think too slick
[05:26] her: ahahaha
[05:26] her: wutre u tryna say HUH
[05:27] me: not what you're thinking, but i'll consider it
[05:27] her: haha ahh ur retarded
[05:28] her: i'm sensing a not exactly positive vibe from you at the moment, actually
[05:30] me: ahh, that sucks
[05:31] me: u don't like word games do you
[05:31] her: hahaha i like em
[05:31] her: yours just confuse me hahah
[05:32] me: i didn't know i was confusing u, lol

damn, i'm an idiot...this kind of **** does not work through text...i almost messed up big...this girl is different...she seems to know what i'm trying to pull....but got confused at the same time...

i'm through with talking to her online...only for limited amounts of time....i don't wanna mess this one up..cos she's # 1 on my list right now..being around christmas time, i might consider a relationship..i dunno..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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.illadelph

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i'm terribly sorry..but last night, i talked on the phone w/her for 2 hours...i know..that's horrible, all the things we could talk about when we hang out..yodda, yadda....i just enjoy talking with her, and i'm pretty sure she likes it too, or she wouldn't stay on the phone for that long..

we have plans to hang out tomorrow too...i just don't wanna ruin what could come to be....

i hope she calls me tonite...if she doesn't, i will.
 

Shiz Nizzle

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Why not just give it a few days man ? Don't answer if she does call and if she doesn't don't call her. Wait until after the holidays. Maybe monday or tuesday
 

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i just don't wanna ruin what could come to be
Stop focusing on an outcome.

The second you start thinking about what "could" become of this, you're setting yourself up for failure.

Take it all a day at a time.
 

Brian20o2

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
Stop focusing on an outcome.

The second you start thinking about what "could" become of this, you're setting yourself up for failure.

Take it all a day at a time.
Wisest words Ive heard in a LONG time.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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.illadelph

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that's really true. i need to realize that and stop thinking about an outcome. take it in stride...

i should have known i can't outwit a girl with mind games...it just won't work. i feel like an ass....ahhhh..
 
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