“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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almost messed up badly....

.illadelph

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words of advice....try not to talk on aim or any instant messanger service for too long..if u want to tallk, then call her....

anyway, the girl i'm currently digging imed me earlier...and me trying to be slick, played word games...asking really curious questions...sooo stupid..lol

05:15] her: whyd u ask what my mood was?
[05:15] me: why are you so curious?
[05:16] her: hahaha
[05:16] her: well, it was a random question
[05:16] me: psshh, random is what kind of panties are you wearing
[05:16] her: ahahaha
[05:16] me: if any at all
[05:17] her: ahaha
[05:17] her: u were the one who seemed kinda
[05:17] her: not in a great mood haha
[05:18] me: i didn't know u could read emotion behind text
[05:18] her: i can
[05:18] me: that's quite a talent
[05:18] her: i'm talented
[05:18] her: haha
[05:19] me: best things come in smal packages, right?
[05:19] her: haha sometimes!
[05:20] her: i'm really small
[05:20] her: but i'm cool
[05:20] her: HAHAHA jk
[05:23] me: do you feel sexy?
[05:23] her: ahhahaa no
[05:23] me: y not
[05:23] her: nice random questions today
[05:23] her: why are you so curious?
[05:24] me: y is your curiousity directed towards my curiosity towards you?
[05:24] her: because im curious
[05:24] her: :]
[05:25] me: how curious?
[05:25] her: just enough
[05:25] her: haha khoi, you think ur so slick with your word games
[05:25] her: i'm just as slick, buddy
[05:26] me: i think too slick
[05:26] her: ahahaha
[05:26] her: wutre u tryna say HUH
[05:27] me: not what you're thinking, but i'll consider it
[05:27] her: haha ahh ur retarded
[05:28] her: i'm sensing a not exactly positive vibe from you at the moment, actually
[05:30] me: ahh, that sucks
[05:31] me: u don't like word games do you
[05:31] her: hahaha i like em
[05:31] her: yours just confuse me hahah
[05:32] me: i didn't know i was confusing u, lol

damn, i'm an idiot...this kind of **** does not work through text...i almost messed up big...this girl is different...she seems to know what i'm trying to pull....but got confused at the same time...

i'm through with talking to her online...only for limited amounts of time....i don't wanna mess this one up..cos she's # 1 on my list right now..being around christmas time, i might consider a relationship..i dunno..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i'm terribly sorry..but last night, i talked on the phone w/her for 2 hours...i know..that's horrible, all the things we could talk about when we hang out..yodda, yadda....i just enjoy talking with her, and i'm pretty sure she likes it too, or she wouldn't stay on the phone for that long..

we have plans to hang out tomorrow too...i just don't wanna ruin what could come to be....

i hope she calls me tonite...if she doesn't, i will.
 

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Why not just give it a few days man ? Don't answer if she does call and if she doesn't don't call her. Wait until after the holidays. Maybe monday or tuesday
 

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i just don't wanna ruin what could come to be
Stop focusing on an outcome.

The second you start thinking about what "could" become of this, you're setting yourself up for failure.

Take it all a day at a time.
 

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
Stop focusing on an outcome.

The second you start thinking about what "could" become of this, you're setting yourself up for failure.

Take it all a day at a time.
Wisest words Ive heard in a LONG time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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that's really true. i need to realize that and stop thinking about an outcome. take it in stride...

i should have known i can't outwit a girl with mind games...it just won't work. i feel like an ass....ahhhh..
 
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