"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Almost-married girl ... hrm...

Alphathree

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I'm not really looking for "advice" with this post so much as just a sounding board on which I can say "what the hell?"

There's this HB8 that is definitely attracted to me and has been for a long time. She's also definitely engaged to be married and has been for a long time.

Now seriously I have enough trouble hooking up with all the girls I want to in just seven days a week so there's no reason for me to ruin a marriage, lol.

But one day she randomly texted me her home phone number, and then about three weeks later (today), she sent me an email with "Hi, just wanted to see how you're doing", etc.

So I responded inviting her out to coffee, and she'll say yes to that. I wonder what's gonna come of this. I don't want her fiance to kill me, lol.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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did they set a date. Because if they didn't and they've been at it for a while she might be saying to her slef; "well this ain't gona happen, I might as well see what else is outhere"
 
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**** THE FIANCE!!!

Who cares? If shes going for you.. hes a dud. What is that AFC going to do? Nothing!!

Be prepared though. Learn some cool figting moves.

!Bruce Lee!
wataaaaaahhhhhh!!!!!!!:box: :box: :box:
 
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