"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Almost-married girl ... hrm...

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I'm not really looking for "advice" with this post so much as just a sounding board on which I can say "what the hell?"

There's this HB8 that is definitely attracted to me and has been for a long time. She's also definitely engaged to be married and has been for a long time.

Now seriously I have enough trouble hooking up with all the girls I want to in just seven days a week so there's no reason for me to ruin a marriage, lol.

But one day she randomly texted me her home phone number, and then about three weeks later (today), she sent me an email with "Hi, just wanted to see how you're doing", etc.

So I responded inviting her out to coffee, and she'll say yes to that. I wonder what's gonna come of this. I don't want her fiance to kill me, lol.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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did they set a date. Because if they didn't and they've been at it for a while she might be saying to her slef; "well this ain't gona happen, I might as well see what else is outhere"
 
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**** THE FIANCE!!!

Who cares? If shes going for you.. hes a dud. What is that AFC going to do? Nothing!!

Be prepared though. Learn some cool figting moves.

!Bruce Lee!
wataaaaaahhhhhh!!!!!!!:box: :box: :box:
 
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