"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Almost-married girl ... hrm...

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Alphathree

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I'm not really looking for "advice" with this post so much as just a sounding board on which I can say "what the hell?"

There's this HB8 that is definitely attracted to me and has been for a long time. She's also definitely engaged to be married and has been for a long time.

Now seriously I have enough trouble hooking up with all the girls I want to in just seven days a week so there's no reason for me to ruin a marriage, lol.

But one day she randomly texted me her home phone number, and then about three weeks later (today), she sent me an email with "Hi, just wanted to see how you're doing", etc.

So I responded inviting her out to coffee, and she'll say yes to that. I wonder what's gonna come of this. I don't want her fiance to kill me, lol.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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did they set a date. Because if they didn't and they've been at it for a while she might be saying to her slef; "well this ain't gona happen, I might as well see what else is outhere"
 
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**** THE FIANCE!!!

Who cares? If shes going for you.. hes a dud. What is that AFC going to do? Nothing!!

Be prepared though. Learn some cool figting moves.

!Bruce Lee!
wataaaaaahhhhhh!!!!!!!:box: :box: :box:
 
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