Okay, so she's not quite a perfect 10, but this girl is close. Real hot, amazing body, very smart (her dad's a math PhD), she's everything I could want in a girl. Obviously this sounds like a bad case of oneitis. However, I found this site soon after meeting her and I’ve been playing it cool, flirting with lots of other girls. Every other guy in my school drools all over her, whereas I just act friendly. But then that’s the problem, I’m new at DJing, so while I have the right attitude the practice is lacking.
Lately she’s been acting really flirty and I’ve been being reserved in return. The other day at lunch she was leaning all over me (never seen her do that to anybody she hasn’t dated), and I stayed in control of myself, left her as soon as a friend called me over. She says hi to me before I can, she compliments me, you get the idea. Any other guy in my situation would be all over her right now and shot down in a week, but she has a bf right now so I feel like I’m getting tested more than anything, and I feel like I’m passing. Anyways, they’ve only been going out for maybe a week, and we are getting to be better and better friends lately. Still, usually my history says that if I’m not with the girl right after I meet her then it’s off to LJBFs land.
On the one hand I don’t want to be like all the other guys who have covered her in attention only to be shot down, but on the other hand I only have 4 more months to get this girl before I graduate. I feel like I’ve done everything right up until now, but I need to change tactics to turn her from interested friend to girl friend.
Right now I’m thinking I should use more kino whenever I see her but try not to see her as much. She’s one of the hottest girls in my school, so obviously I need to challenge her. She’s a (almost, I’m not gonna marry her) perfect girl for me, and I’m not saying that as an AFC, I’m saying that as a guy who’s met a lot of girls but none like this. But if I want to get this one, and she’s worth getting, I need to speed things up. So other than making sure to keep showing her my smart, in control side whenever I see her, what can I do? I asked her to come rock climbing sometime and she said she would, so it’s going good. But how do I walk the line between being a challenge and getting the girl before I grad?
Lately she’s been acting really flirty and I’ve been being reserved in return. The other day at lunch she was leaning all over me (never seen her do that to anybody she hasn’t dated), and I stayed in control of myself, left her as soon as a friend called me over. She says hi to me before I can, she compliments me, you get the idea. Any other guy in my situation would be all over her right now and shot down in a week, but she has a bf right now so I feel like I’m getting tested more than anything, and I feel like I’m passing. Anyways, they’ve only been going out for maybe a week, and we are getting to be better and better friends lately. Still, usually my history says that if I’m not with the girl right after I meet her then it’s off to LJBFs land.
On the one hand I don’t want to be like all the other guys who have covered her in attention only to be shot down, but on the other hand I only have 4 more months to get this girl before I graduate. I feel like I’ve done everything right up until now, but I need to change tactics to turn her from interested friend to girl friend.
Right now I’m thinking I should use more kino whenever I see her but try not to see her as much. She’s one of the hottest girls in my school, so obviously I need to challenge her. She’s a (almost, I’m not gonna marry her) perfect girl for me, and I’m not saying that as an AFC, I’m saying that as a guy who’s met a lot of girls but none like this. But if I want to get this one, and she’s worth getting, I need to speed things up. So other than making sure to keep showing her my smart, in control side whenever I see her, what can I do? I asked her to come rock climbing sometime and she said she would, so it’s going good. But how do I walk the line between being a challenge and getting the girl before I grad?